When I started to venture into the world of International Dating I wanted to visit all of the countries which I found to be most interesting but never would I’ve thought that I would fall in love with Estonian women.
If you are new here, make sure to check out all the women’s country guides to see how Estonian women compare in all categories.
So today I want to break some Estonian women stereotypes and talk about what they’re like overall if you are thinking about starting a relationship with them.
Also, if you’re here just for pictures of hot Estonian women then you’re welcome to follow along and you can also check out some Instagram profiles that I’ll leave a link to as well.
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12 Most Important Traits of Estonian Women Rated 1-10 (+ Overall Score)
I want to start this guide by talking about individual traits that set off women of Estonia from other women.
I’ll give a score from 1 to 10 for each trait and in the end, I’ll gather the numbers and give an overall score.
The aim is to give you a closer look at what are Estonian women like so you can decide if you want to end up dating them or not.
What Physical Traits Distinguish Estonian Women from Other Women
1. Physical Appearance
Every country has women who are beautiful and unique in their way, but there’s just something about Estonian females that I can’t get enough of.
Also, when you learn the fact that Estonia, a tiny Baltic state, has the most models per capita, maybe it’s not just me who finds Estonian chicks attractive.
Estonian girls are quite tall and lean and they typically have blonde hair, so apart from their height, they can be compared to Russian girls in terms of beauty.
Estonian women body type can be compared to that of French or Italian women because they are quite slim but they don’t lack attributes either.
Even though they don’t have an hour-glass shape as Latin girls do, and I know that wide hips are popular now, but Estonian women are still nicely shaped and have that model vibe going for them.
And, besides most Estonian women having blonde hair, you can find brunettes and dark-haired women as well.
Of course one of your first concerns when you start your adventure of International Dating is going to be to make sure that the girls you want to date are healthy.
And I can assure you that Estonian women are quite healthy which is shown by their silky skin and pearly white teeth.
Also, because many hot Estonian girls are into modeling, they like to stay in shape so they exercise regularly.
So if you want to start dating Estonian women you can rest assured that they’re in great shape and are overall healthy.
3. How stylish are they?
When it comes to style, Estonian girls are quite versatile because Estonia has all four seasons and it can get quite cold in autumn and winter so they learned to adapt to the climate and still look fabulous.
Apart from the girls who do modeling and who are stylish 24/7, typical Estonian girls wear anything hot in fashion right now.
Also, their perfect physique allows them to wear whatever they want and still look good.
Knowing this, you can expect to see pretty Estonian girls wearing just a casual t-shirt and jeans or a skirt and dress in spring and summer and top it off with a casual leather jacket for those chilly nights.
In autumn and winter, they pull out their trench coats or overcoats and wide hats and look quite gorgeous walking through town.
They tend to dress more professional than casual though and I think that it makes them look more mature than per se, American girls so if you’re into that you’ll be pleasantly surprised by their fashion sense.
4. Facial Beauty
As you can already imagine, Estonian girls have a unique facial beauty which can only be compared to Russian girls.
They have narrow, chiseled jaws, clear skin and most of them have big blue eyes that come to life when they wear make-up.
Since we’re on the topic of make-up, beautiful Estonian girls fall into two different categories of women, meaning that they either don’t wear make-up at all and like to go out looking all-natural or they follow a strict make-up routine and wouldn’t be caught dead walking outside without make-up on.
Now, depending on the type of girl you want, you’ll notice which Estonian girls don’t like to wear make-up and which ones do, so there’s everything for everyone.
Additional Rating – The Tinder 1000 Swipe Rating
On top of the physical trait ratings for Estonian women, we have also created our own additional rating from the Estonian Women men we see on Tinder. We call it the 1,000 Tinder swipe rating. It is extremely accurate and gives a very good overall picture of the men and how attractive they are.
This is how it works.
We swiped through 1000 different profiles in all of the major cities of Estonia and took note of how many handsome men there are. We jotted down how many 8’s, 9’s and 10’s there are based on their profile pictures. Here is a quick breakdown.
- 0-100 is poor
- 100-200 is OK
- 200-300 is Good
- 300 – 400 Is Incredible
- 400 + is Mindblowing (There are only a few of these)
With a Tinder Plus subscription, you can teleport to anywhere in the world and swipe for yourself. Find out more below In the section about how to meet Estonia women. Also, make sure to check out my other country guides to see how their Tinder scores compare.
What Different Personality Traits Estonian Women Have from Other Women
1. Do they Like Going out and Having Fun?
Most single Estonian women I’ve met were outgoing and liked to have fun and that’s why every bar or club I’ve visited in Estonia was always full of hot chicks.
However, Estonian girls don’t like to party every day but rather at the weekends because on workdays they come home tired and just want to rest.
But when you go to places like Tallinn, which is the capital, you can expect there to be a wild-show on the weekends and all the bars and clubs are full.
There you can spot some of the hottest Estonian women and you’ll surely be attracted to them right away, but just don’t think that you can get Estonian girls in bed that easily.
Also, I have to add those Estonian girls like to drink a lot and maybe they sometimes have more shots than they are supposed to.
But can you blame them? Estonia is bordered with Russia.
2. Chill Factor
As I said, Estonian girls are, for the most part, easy-going and it seems like they don’t worry about anything.
And that’s the vibe you get when you first come to Estonia as well as people there are just working and minding their own business and you don’t get that stressful sense in the air as you might experience in other crowded European countries.
So if you just want to spend some time in peace accompanied by some sexy Estonian girls, you should consider planning your trip to Estonia and see for yourself.
I’ve been to 4 continents, visited many countries and met hundreds of women but one thing that stood out to me when I started dating Estonian women is that they are quite loyal.
Maybe even more loyal than most women I’ve met during my travels.
I think that this has to do with the fact that most Estonian women are more on the traditional side and they don’t go from one partner to another but rather want to settle down.
If you want to start a real relationship with an Estonian girl, she’ll truly devote herself to you but also if you just want to date her while you’re on your trip she’ll respect that as well and won’t be nagging you to stay if that’s not what you want.
That being said, I think that you can expect loyalty and respect once you start dating Estonian girls and this might be the most important thing about any relationship in general.
4. Good as Mothers
If you are thinking of settling down you surely want someone who wants to not only start a family but also understand and respect family values.
And that’s exactly what Estonian women want as well.
In my opinion, they make perfect mothers because most Estonian women are quite attached to their family and are great with children but they are also taught from an early age by their mothers how to cook and clean the house.
You have to understand that Estonians have quite traditional lives compared to the situation in the West and that it’s normal for a woman to be the one who takes care of the house and this is a good thing if you want a healthy family.
Overall, if you want someone who knows how to raise your kids the proper way but can also support you in life and end up being your soul-mate, you can find all of these traits in girls of Estonia.
5. Meeting and Talking to New People
When I first got to Estonia I was surprised by people’s hospitality and by how I could ask anyone for directions to someplace or just to give me a helping hand.
This hospitality and approachability can also be applied to their women and there was no problem for me to strike up a conversation with single Estonian girls.
The girls there are quite easy-going and like to talk with foreigners and even flirt with them if they find them interesting.
You don’t need to worry about the language-barrier either because most Estonians know English very well so you’ll be able to start a conversation with any girl you meet.
6. Are they Romantic?
Surprisingly, Estonians are more related to Finnish than to Russians and if you’re ever been to Finland you know that Finnish women aren’t the most romantic ones you’ll meet.
The same can be applied to Estonian women.
Now, every girl likes to be treated like a princess and a box of chocolates and a bouquet is always a great way to surprise your lady, but you don’t want to over-do it because you might be taken the wrong way.
Estonian girls are gentle and girly but they want a partner who is tough and can protect them so you don’t want to show too much emotion when dating an Estonian woman.
So even though they don’t like romance as much as other girls, if you just be the partner they want you to be, you’ll satisfy them.
Even though Estonian women might make the first impression that they’re shy or a bit introverted, trust me when you end up getting Estonian women in bed that first impression will suddenly change.
Naturally, when you are already considering going to Estonia to venture off into International Dating, you might be wondering what are Estonian women like in bed and I can assure you that they’re fantastic.
They are quite wild as far as the bedroom is concerned and you’ll certainly have the night of your life because once you get them to bed, they loosen up completely and show you their wild side.
And although you might need to wait sometime until they agree to sleep with you, you’ll see for yourself that the wait will be worth it.
8. Gringo Card – How Likely Are They to Date Foreigners?
If you’re an American man looking for Estonian women then you’re in luck because Estonian women are quite fond of us Americans.
They think that we are classy and well-educated and they are looking for a stable partner who can support them in all aspects of life when they start a relationship.
Dating Estonian women can sometimes even lead to a long-term relationship and if that’s something you’re looking forward to, then you’re in luck.
Also, if you just want to explore the Estonian dating culture while you’re on your trip there, then that’s also fine because you’ll certainly get lucky with a few girls you meet there.
Having a tall, lean, and nicely-shaped body has given Estonian women an edge over other countries in the numbers of models produced so far.
They are fashionable, outgoing, and easy-going in nature.
If you want a faithful partner, consider them.
What else are you seeking in a love match?
Read on to unveil the pros, cons, and tips on these hotties from Estonia.
Where to Meet Estonian Women?
Now that you have some idea about what are Estonian girls like in relationships I want to continue with this guide by talking about where to meet Estonian girls.
Of course, going off to Estonia and jumping straight into International Dating isn’t everyone’s cup of tea and you might want to see what’s it like dating an Estonian woman before you go there so I want to share with you my best dating site where you can chat with Estonian girls.
Yes, you’ve read that right.
Even though Mamba.ru is a popular Russian dating site, you would be surprised how many Estonians are using this site to chat with new people.
Remember, Estonia is a small country and it only has about 1.3 million people but with over 300.000 Estonians using this site monthly, you might want to consider giving it a try.
The signing-up process is quite easy and you can even use your Facebook or Google account to make a profile.
You just select your gender, age, the location where you want to find people and you can even select if you just want to make friendships or date someone from the site.
You can even go on the advanced search option and there you will be presented with many other features so that you can narrow down your search even more.
Then you will be presented with profiles, for example from Estonia and you can send private messages to members to start a conversation.
Because the user interface is quite easy to navigate and it’s even easier to start chatting with Estonian girls, this site is my best recommendation for you if you want to see what it’s like dating an Estonian girl.
Traveler’s Guide for Meeting Estonian Women
Now that you know roughly how to meet an Estonian girl I want to share with you some cities of Estonia that I liked the most and I even consider visiting again.
There’s everything for everyone in Estonia and you’ll surely have fun while spending your time there so let’s see what this country has to offer.
Tallinn is the capital city and the most populated city of Estonia with about 500.000 people living there.
It’s a small but colorful town situated on the coast of the country on the shore of the Baltic Sea with many rustic buildings but also with modern architecture.
If you want to go for a walk and explore the city, some places that I suggest you visit include the Toompea Castle, the Estonian Art Museum in Kadriorg Palace and the colorful Town Hall square.
If you’re interested in what Tallinn has to offer in terms of nightclubs I recommend you visit these places:
- Club Studio
- Venus Club
- Club Ibiza
- Club 9/11
- Casanova Club
Remember, Tallinn is the largest city in Estonia so you have lots of clubs and bars there unlike in other cities so you might want to explore for yourself and see what this city has to offer.
Tartu is the second-largest city in Estonia but only has nearly over 90.000 inhabitants and you can walk through the whole city in just a couple of hours.
But even though Tartu is small, many places attract tourists such as the Tartu Cathedral ruins, the Barclay Square, Lutheran St. John’s Church and the historic Gunpowder Cellar of Tartu.
Of course, you’re mainly interested in places you can go out and have fun and even though Tartu is a small town it still has lots of bars and clubs such as:
- Tartu Jazz Club
- Shooters Tartu
- Club Oleg
- Rock & Roll Club
Because this is a small town and you can visit all the monuments and historic sites in one day, you might as well go out and explore for yourself what Tartu has to offer.
Pärnu is also a small town just like Tartu and only has about 50.000 people living there but despite its size, the town is a popular tourist attraction.
This is due to the town being located on the coast of the Baltic Sea and the Gulf of Riga and because of many nice hotels and beautiful sandy beaches people from all over the world come here on a summer holiday.
Also, the town features different music festivals each year and many major artists come to preform which attracts many tourists and the town gets crowded very quickly.
When you’re already there enjoying a great view of the Baltic Sea from your hotel room, you might want to go out and have fun in the evening and I would suggest you visit:
- Nightclub Sunset
- Club Sugar
- Club Globe
- Bum-Bum Pub
- Club Temple
Most of these clubs are near the beach so when you’re done with sunbathing in the afternoon you can get ready and go out to have fun in any of these clubs or try to find some that will suit you.
Pros and Cons of Dating an Estonian Woman
Now that I’ve talked about where to meet an Estonian woman in Estonia, I want to talk a bit about some pros and cons of typical Estonian women.
Dating always has some ups and downs and dating an Estonian woman isn’t that easy as you might think but I hope to clear any Estonian girl stereotypes you might have in this section.
1. Estonian Girls are Beautiful
Everyone wants to have a beautiful girlfriend because we all like to look at a pretty face but there’s just something about Estonian girls that make you go wild.
I don’t know if it’s their perfect physique or their beautiful faces, but I’m sure lucky I got to date a few of them and I’m sure that you will too.
2. Estonian Girls Live a Healthy Lifestyle
If you’re someone who’s into sports or just likes to work-out regularly, then having an Estonian girlfriend is perfect for you.
Estonian girls like to stay fit and work-out almost every day which is great if you lack a gym partner and you also have lots of date options such as indoor rock-climbing or even just going to the gym and jumping on the trampoline which always sounds fun.
Also, because most of them look like models, it’s expected that you look fit as well so if you’re not in your best shape I suggest you start hitting the gym more often.
3. They are Great Cooks
I’ve been invited to dinner by a couple of Estonian girls I’ve dated and all of them cooked amazing meals for me.
Estonian food is quite delicious and Estonians mostly eat fish and pork, but also have lots of tasty desserts and you will forget about fast-food once you try their cuisine.
Their food tastes even better when prepared at home so you’re in luck if you start dating an Estonian girl because she’ll most likely know how to cook.
4. Language Barrier isn’t a Problem
Most Estonians know English and English is the second language there so you will have no problem while communicating with any Estonian girl you meet.
Of course, you might want to learn a few Estonian words just to show some respect because a simple “Tere” which means “Hello” can go a long way.
5. Estonian Women Know How to Take Care of the Home
When I came over to one of my Estonian girlfriend’s house I was surprised at how the place was so spotless and how she kept everything all neat and organized.
This is a plus for me because I’m also very orderly and don’t like to live in a messy home.
And Estonian girls don’t even mind cleaning up after someone but just don’t take advantage of their kindness too much often because everyone has their limits.
1. Estonian Girls are Quite Attached to Their Family
Because Estonians are generally quite traditional and have large families, you can expect to meet your Estonian girlfriend’s relatives on family gatherings which happen quite often believe it or not.
This can sometimes be a toll because you’ll have to sit at the dinner table and meet every single near or distant relative and they’ll all be fascinated by you and will ask hundreds of questions about your life and so on.
If you’re someone who doesn’t see a problem in this and is sociable then that’s great but for me, that was quite exhausting.
2. Estonian Women Don’t Like to do anything on The First Date
When you meet an Estonian woman for the first time and offer her to go on a date with you, don’t expect her to do anything after the date.
Estonian girls tend to wait a bit until they learn a thing or two about the person they’re dating before jumping into bed with them.
You can try and go in for a kiss if the mood is set, but if it isn’t don’t try to force anything because it can easily backlash and you don’t want to be on the wrong side of the whip.
3. Estonian Girls Talk Fast
We all know that women tend to talk faster than men but Estonian girls talk quite fast and loud so you’ll need to adjust yourself to their speed and volume so you can catch up to them.
I’m a fast talker myself and can also be loud at times so I didn’t have any problems while chatting with Estonian girls, but not all people are like that so you might be a little bugged by that.
If you’re struggling to keep up with your Estonian date, politely ask her to slow down and she will because most Estonian girls are aware that they talk fast and will try to adjust the speed to you.
How to Make an Estonian Girl Fall in Love with You
Now that you know how to meet Estonian women and that you have learned what are Estonian women like in relationships, I want to share with you some of my Estonian women tips and tricks that you’ll most definitely find useful.
Also, some of these tips are in general what women want in a relationship so they can be used in almost any situation.
1. Learn to Adapt to Their Lifestyle
Because Estonian women like to keep fit and lead a very active lifestyle, one of the major Estonian women dating tips would be for you to learn to adapt to them because they don’t want to date someone who is a couch-potato.
If you’re not that into sports and hate going to the gym, that’s perfectly fine but you need to have at least one activity that you can enjoy doing together.
It can be as simple as going for a long walk every 2 or 3 days to even doing some cardio every morning.
The point is to stay active and not only are you going to be healthier, but you’re also going to spend more time with your Estonian girlfriend.
2. Boost Your Confidence
Not all guys are experts on starting a conversation with women and neither am I.
I was quite shy when I was younger and just the thought of having to walk up to a girl and starting a conversation made my stomach swirl.
But after some time I’ve gotten more relaxed and learned that I don’t have to be the best-looking guy or have money to attract girls but just to be myself and confident about who I am.
And I would suggest you do the same thing.
Now, confidence isn’t something you’re born with, but it is rather developed as you get older and if you’re feeling unconfident now there are a lot of things you can do to boost your confidence.
These things include taking up a hobby or some kind of sports, maybe going to dance classes, guitar lessons or even learning a new language.
Each of these activities can boost your confidence because not only are you spending your time being productive but you’ll also enjoy doing those things and have more topics to talk about with people.
So your basic “Hello, you look beautiful” when you start a conversation with a girl can turn into a “Hi, do you want to grab a drink with me and play chess?”
Sounds cheesy but trust me, girls like to hear such unexpected offers and they’ll at least find you more interesting than someone who starts talking about generic things.
Also, a little side note, Estonian girls are great at chess for some reason.
3. Don’t Try to Flirt Right Away
One of the most important Estonian girl dating tips is that you don’t want to flirt right away when talking to an Estonian girl.
It’s because she’ll suspect that you only want to have a one-night-stand with her even if that’s not the case.
And, as I already mentioned, Estonian girls like to wait and see what you’re like before they start having anything with you.
But trust me, the wait is well worth it and if you don’t end up in a relationship at least you’ll get to know what they’re like.
Once an Estonian girl starts flirting with you then you have the green light to start flirting with her as well but up until that point just focus on getting to know her.
4. Be a Gentleman on the First Date
You should always be a gentleman towards women regardless of the situation, but you should also be on your best behavior when you go on a first date with an Estonian girl.
She’ll automatically pick up on things like opening a door for her, taking her jacket off, complimenting on her dress and so on.
And no, Estonian girls aren’t seeking romance as we already discussed but they want a partner who treats them nice because they surely know how to be great partners themselves.
If you’re not used to being a gentleman and just want to date an Estonian woman without showing that you care then I have bad news for you.
5. Don’t try to be Dominant
When you first meet Estonian girls, you’ll think that they are quite shy and passive but in reality, they aren’t.
They don’t like it when their partner is too pushy and start to boss them around telling them what they should be doing and quite honestly, no one likes that.
A plus side to this is that you don’t have to make the first move with an Estonian woman because she’ll give you sudden hints if she’s into you or not and you just have to follow them and do what she expects you to do.
I know, this sounds like women psychology 101, but it’s actually what Estonian women are truly like – honest and direct.
So you’ll know right away if an Estonian woman likes you or not and you don’t need to waste time in figuring it out so just lay back and let her be the dominant one.
6. Give out Compliments
When giving out compliments to an Estonian girl, you want to keep things subtle and not focus on complimenting her beauty.
You can give her a compliment about her outfit, her cooking if she made you something nice, laugh at her jokes to show her that you find her funny and so on.
There’s a lot of ways you can give a compliment and not them just being saying that she has beautiful eyes and a great body so you want to show her that you care about who she is and not just how she looks.
So less is more when it comes to Estonian girls and it’s maybe even easier to get them to like you that way.
7. Language Barrier
Now, even though the language is not that big of a problem for Estonian women, you can still put in some effort and learn a bit of their language.
Of course, you should be prepared and know that it is not an easy language but a little bit of effort can get you a long way.
Besides, I don’t mean to say that you should spend years learning Estonian before you are ready to win over their hearts, but a few basic phrases will surely make them love you!
The Most Beautiful Estonian Women
Now that I’ve shared with you my tips for dating an Estonian woman and that you now have a rough idea of what Estonian women seek in a relationship, I want to present to you some of the most beautiful women of Estonia.
1. Kelly Sildaru
Kelly was born on February 17th in 2002 and is a famous freestyle skier from Estonia.
This wonder child won a gold medal in the 2016 Winter X Games when she was just 13 makings her the youngest competitor to win a gold medal in the event.
What’s even more amazing is that in the following event of Winter X Games hosted in 2017, Kelly was the first woman to successfully perform a Switch 1260° Mute and a 1440° which made her attract the public’s eye.
She couldn’t perform in the 2018 Winter Olympics due to a knee injury but that hasn’t discouraged her to win a gold medal in the 2020 Youth Olympics in Women’s Freestyle Skiing.
Because Kelly has just started her career we all expect her to do great and get more gold medals as she gets older. We will just have to wait and see.
2. Anu Tali
I’ll let you butcher her name instead of me.
Jokes aside, Anu Tali is one Estonian woman who is certainly known across her globe for her conducting skills.
And if you’re someone who’s into classical music and still goes to operas and theaters then you’ve surely heard her name pop up somewhere.
This 48-year-old Estonian woman looks like she’s in her 30’s and she’s even more gorgeous when she’s on stage conducting the orchestra.
I could make a whole article about in which opera houses Anu worked in the past but I’ll just mention that now she’s the music director of the Sarasota Orchestra and the co-founder of Nordic Symphony Orchestra.
Overall, if you’re not into classical music, this woman might as well get you interested in it.
3. Carmen Kass
This is the woman who paved the way for Estonian girls to take up modeling.
Once a young 18-year-old supermodel for Vogue and now a 41-year-old modeling superstar, Carmen Kass can surely teach young girls what it takes to be a model.
She’s been a model for most luxurious fashion brands such as Gucci, Michael Kors, Ralph Lauren, Givenchy, Fendi and many more.
I have to mention that this Estonian girl sure knows how to play chess and she was even the president of the Estonian Chess Federation for 8 years. Still, think it’s stupid to ask an Estonian girl out for a game of chess?
You might even recognize her from the movie Zoolander where she did a cameo, but for most of her life, Carmen has mostly done just modeling.
Stunning Beauties on Instagram from Estonia
So that’s about it when it comes to my guide on International Dating and what you can expect when you meet sexy Estonian women.
I hope that you’ve found this guide helpful and feel free to let me know in the comments below.
To help you maintain a fulfilling relationship with your Estonia sweetheart, reading my ultimate guide to dating classy women will be to your advantage.