Japanese Women – Meeting, Dating, and More (LOTS of Pics)

Japanese Women Guide

Hello, m’ boys, and welcome back to one more episode of International Dating with Tyler!

If you are new here, make sure to check out all the women’s country guides to see how Japanese women compare in all categories.

Today, we will be learning more about those sweet little Japanese women.

Spending a few years there helped me learn a lot about Japanese chicks, Japanese dating culture, and some Japanese women stereotypes.

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So, today we will break them down and learn what are Japanese women like.

So, let’s begin!

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12 Traits that Make Japanese Women Stand Out (Rated 1-10)

Why are Japanese woman so attractive, you might wonder.

There are many reasons for this, both in their physical looks and in their character.

The truth is, you can put all of these women under one cap, but here are some things that make typical Japanese women what they are and us so attracted to them.

So, are they like those girls in cartoons or adult movies? Sorry for breaking your ideal Japanese girl image, but most definitely not.

They are not as rich as Colombian, or Brazilian women (hips and other curves), even though you can find anything on the internet. They are damn shy, and not that much traditional (as for example, Chinese girls are).

What Physical Traits Distinguish Greek Women from Other Women

1. Physical appearance

Japanese girls have a very specific look.

They are very petite in stature. And what you can expect is… actually, nothing.

Japanese females are either hot as hell, or you know… not that hot.

The average height of Japanese women is 5 feet 2 inches (158 cm) which is much smaller than, for example, women of France who are 5 feet 6 inches (170cm).

Okay, it might be unfair to compare them with French women, but, for example, they are an inch shorter than Chinese women as well.

This is ideal for shorter men. Or for those of you who don’t mind the height.

On the other hand, in Japanese culture, a pale tan is a sign of aristocracy and high class.

This is why lighter skin color is very popular in Japan and you can see them with make-up, almost looking like vampires.

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What’s more, they are also famous for their distinctive eyes.

However, some Japanese people are ashamed of them.

They get surgery to deal with hooded eyelids, so they would look more Western.

And what does this tell you?

Hot Japanese women are pretty into western things. Western boys as well.

That’s your ticket in.

Breast surgery for aesthetic purposes isn’t yet very popular, but because of the aforementioned influence, it is getting more attention.

This is less important as their cute face is their primary attribute. They prefer a natural look and are kinda natural, but when they do the make-up, you’ll barely recognize the face behind.

There is something hot about these girls. In general, they lack curves, but even without those, they are still hot-looking.

Japanese women physical appearance

2. Health

Do you know that song “Forever Young”?

It’s like it was written for these people specifically.

The Japanese are famous for never truly aging. Their youthful looks remain through much of their lives. It’s so weird that it got me confused several times.

A girl looking like she is in mid-twenties, relieving her true age is always an unwrapped gift.

It’s not just down to the genetics or Japanese women’s body type.

It’s the lifestyle.

They are healthy and they live healthily.

I mean, you know how thin they are? You could stack up 3 of these to balance the scales with Samoan woman.

Japanese cuisine is a rare mix of delicious and healthy, and contagiously tasty ingredients.

Typical Japanese girls treat their bodies like temples (which Japan is known for).

They run and work out all the time.  Strict diets and a lot of rice made my face white as theirs is, over time.

So, pretty healthy and fit people (almost fragile-looking).

How Healthy are the Japanese women?

3. How stylish are they?

Japan is mostly old fashioned, at least compared to the West, and at least what I saw there in a year of living there.

Women dress a bit more modestly.

This is ok, as they do follow trends, so they are impeccably dressed. Younger women might dress more provocatively.

Japanese chicks follow all the latest fashion. Class is shown by their impeccable way of dressing.

High-class Japanese girls are always top-fashioned. Therefore, they want men of the same status, same style, same mindset.

Suits are the norm here, so if you ever go to Japan, BYOS (bring your own suit). Play your cards right and you will find out what Japanese women in bed are like.

If she sees a fine tailored suit, chances are you might end up having a couple of drinks.

Japan is among the world’s richest countries.

Big fashion companies are drawn to their markets.

They can afford the top brands like Gucci, Prada, etc. Hot Japanese girls will not pass up on an opportunity to wear all the latest trends from the planet’s top brands.

Looking fancy is a must if you are looking to impress sexy Japanese women.

After all, it all depends on your league. There is plenty of fish in the sea, you just need to catch the one you want with the appropriate equipment.

Are Japanese women stylish?

4. Facial beauty

There is a stereotype that beautiful Japanese girls are so sweet and childishly looking. And that’s because of their sweet, cute-looking faces.

Beautiful Japanese women are very youthful-looking. They are baby-faced with extremely soft facial features.

Small eyes and a small nose, natural look with very little makeup- that’s how an average Japanese girl looks like.

They love the “no makeup” makeup look.

Wrinkles show up much later in life and aren’t particularly noticeable.

Their skin is very clean and pure.

It’s like they don’t age at all.

Overall, they genuinely look very cute. If you are into Asian beauty, these girls are on top of the list when it comes to facial beauty.

I’d say, prettier than Chinese or Korean girls, but that’s just me.

And there’s a good reason they are so highly ranked in the International dating scene lists.

Japanese women Facial beauty

Additional Rating – The Tinder 1000 Swipe Rating

On top of the four physical trait ratings for Japanese women, we have also created our own additional rating from the Japanese girls we see on Tinder.  We call it the 1,000 Tinder swipe rating. It is extremely accurate and gives a very good overall picture of the single women and how attractive they are.

This is how it works. 

We swiped through 1000 different profiles in all of the major cities of Japan and took note of how many beautiful women there are. We jotted down how many 8’s, 9’s and 10’s there are based on their profile pictures. Here is a quick breakdown. 

  • 0-100 is poor
  • 100-200 is OK
  • 200-300 is Good
  • 300 – 400 Is Incredible 
  • 400 + is Mindblowing (There are only a few of these)

With a Tinder Plus subscription, you can teleport to anywhere in the world and swipe for yourself. Find out more below In the section about how to meet Japanese women. Also, make sure to check out my other country guides to see how their Tinder scores compare. 

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What Different Personality Traits Japanese Women have Compared to Those of Other Countries

Now, however important looks are, it is not all about that now, is it?

So, let’s see some of the personality traits that stand out the most and learn what are Japanese girls like in relationships.

I mean, if you want to break Japanese girl stereotypes, you need to know if they are really all that shy and cute, right?

1. Meeting and talking to new people

Unlike girls of France, who are very confident and ooze with their sexuality, girls of Japan are very timid and insecure.

You will have to do most of the talking while she is smiling, blushing, and sometimes looking down to avoid eye contact.

They will not ignore you.

Rather than that, they will modestly answer your questions and laugh at the worst of your jokes and pick up lines.

It will be entirely up to you to keep the conversation going though.

Such sweethearts, aren’t they?

So, it’s a good thing for us foreigners. You always have a chance, and it all depends on how charming you are.

How often do Japanese women talk to new people?

2. Do they enjoy going out and having fun?

The Japanese are very hard-working people.

Their approach to work is a sense of pride and identity, however weird that might sound.

However, they also enjoy going out and having fun, just to relax and take the pressure off.

It is even customary that after work, colleagues will join each other for a drink or two.

After work hours, the bars will be full of pretty Japanese women.

The atmosphere will be relaxing as people are looking to unwind after a long day of hard work. That’s your chance, tiger!

If you find bars a bit too tame and boring for your taste, just go to one of many nightclubs, especially if you are in Tokyo.

They are extremely popular, mostly with students and other younger adults.

They are modernly equipped and more suitable for foreigners who are usually used to such places, events, and activities.

There you are bound to find single Japanese girls who are looking to hook up and party. So, I guess they are pretty open to having fun and going out. Just depend on the age you are aiming at.

How fun are Japanese women?

3. Chill factor

In this country politeness is the main social norm.

Japanese girls hide their true feelings, instead of opting for more courteous responses.

This might lead to problems later on, as they might one day burst and show their true feelings. Until then, they are chill and you are safe.

However, in the short term, like for example for just one night, this is not the usual response and you shouldn’t worry about those things.

That means that Japanese women will not be any more jealous than other women on the International dating scene, but they might conceal their feelings.

The sex ratio is in favor of the females, meaning there is more competition amongst men than women.

Japanese girls are more patient.

They are also told to be more tolerant, than for example, Russian women or French women.

So, Japanese girls are pretty chill to date with and have fun.

what is the chill factor of Japanese women?

4. Are they loyal?

What are Japanese women like in relationships and are they loyal, you wanna know.

Japanese girls are considered to be loyal.

Because of their kind nature, they rarely take initiative and will look past some of the faults that might have been made.

It probably won’t cross her mind to cheat on you.

Cheating is still a huge taboo and no one likes to be stigmatized. However, if we take into consideration what I already told, about them not ignoring anyone, it might be risky.

Who knows what can arise from their politeness. A talk, a flirt, a thing?

However, I think they are pretty loyal, overall.

Japanese women are loyal

5. Are they good as mothers?

They aren’t just good; they are amazing as mothers.

Even though Japan is very corporately oriented, it is still expected of girls to drop their careers and raise a family while the husband remains the sole breadwinner. 

However, they do a splendid job keeping the family together.

They are fully committed and most have the family as their number one priority.

The Japanese take great pride in raising well-behaved children, and to do that you need healthy relationships in the family.

Mothers are the cornerstone of the family and they feel a great bit of honor in the task mentioned before.

They see it as a sort of duty to their country, which often leads to great results – hard-working, moral and virtuous children who have great pride in the family name.

They instill a sense of discipline (but not blind obedience) that Japan is well renowned for.

Are Japanese women good mothers?

6. Are they romantic?

Yes, they certainly fall into the romantic category. I’d give it 9 out of 10.

They greatly appreciate even the smallest of gestures and see them as acts of love.

When you surprise her with a romantic gift like roses or chocolate, they will usually not shy away from showing affection.

They will be thankful and will make sure you know how they feel.

Romance is still very popular among young women, and Japan is not an exception to this. Romantic movies and date nights will surely win you over the girls of your dreams.

Lots of them look at these films as an inspiration and would like to have a love like on the big screens. 

I dare to say they are more romantic than most of their “rivals” from the rest of the world.

Are Japanese women romantic?

7. Sexuality

What are Japanese women like in bed, you ask me.

Damn! They are…

Even though Japanese chicks are shy to show it, there is a fire burning inside.

And those things you can feel only with some of the Japanese girls in bed.

So, to find out what are they like, and to fire up that inner tickling fire, you’ll have to try hard!

But not any harder than with any other chicks – from Colombia, Brazil, Russia, or Greece.

I might just say, even easier if you are coming from the West.

I won’t say much, but those shy, skinny chicks have a lot more to offer than you’ll ever think of.

You might wonder, are they easy?

There is no correct answer to this question. Some might be, some not. It really comes down to each of their personalities and expectation.

But, generally speaking, you need to have some traits yourself so you can be someone who is good for her (and her parents of course).

Learning a few phrases in Japanese is going to make Japanese women look twice at you!

That’s a certain ticket if you want to catch her attention.

In the end, they like you just for being different.

If that’s going to be by different hair and eyes color, your nationality or your adorable accent, that’s really up to you.

But these are the things that will usually give you a premium ticket, a passenger with priority.

Japanese women sexuality

8. Gringo Card – Are they open to dating foreigners?

This one might be trickier to answer than the other questions.

In Japan, foreigners seem exotic.

Dating a Japanese girl isn’t that hard even if you aren’t distinctively handsome.

Even bland, average white Westerners are seen as figures of great beauty, and as a prize to compete for.

The average American or European has an advantage to local commoners, as they are usually bigger and stronger than Asian guys.

Of course, there is also thought of an “exotic adventure” with a foreigner that makes Japanese girls get attracted to you like magnets.

The thought of trying something they haven’t tried before, and being with someone new who isn’t from the same surrounding as they are makes a lot of girls go crazy, regardless of nationality.

These short flings drive sexy Japanese girls to take a chance on you. After all, they don’t expect you to stick around.

Exactly there is where the problem lies.

I mentioned above that Japan is still a conservative country.

That means that they still have old, rigorous social norms they still must follow.

A primary example of that would be marrying and having children within your environment and your society.

This is especially imposed on women, while men might get let off the hook from time to time.

Most marriages between Japanese people and foreigners are men marrying women from other parts of the world.

There is a good reason for this, as there are more men than women in Japan.

Some of the best tip for dating a Japanese woman I’ve heard once is to not get too attached.

All in all, dating and relationships with typical Japanese girls are usually short flings, without the intention of something more long term or settling down and starting a family.

These short-lived relationships are adventurous, romantic and fiery and are definitely worth your time. They will provide you with wholesome memories and unforgettable stories to continuously tell.

How likely is it for Japanese women to date foreigners?

One of the most petite women in the Asian Continent is Japanese women.

What they lack in stature, they make up for with their non-aging fresh looks and love for cooking tasty cuisines.

They love to unwind and have fun after a busy day of intense activities.

Thereby creating a relaxing atmosphere to mingle, chat, flirt and make friends.

Do you want to find out how to win their attention?

Read further to learn more about the pros and cons of dating Japanese women.

Japanese women Overall score

Where to Meet Japanese Girls?

We have thoroughly examined what are Japanese women like, what makes them so desirable, how to meet a Japanese girl and what should your approach be like, as well as tips for dating a Japanese woman and what are their priorities.

But where to meet a Japanese woman?

In the 21st century, online dating is extremely popular and Japan is no exception to it.

So, the most popular dating site that you can use is:


If you are an American man looking for Japanese women, this site is just made for you.

Cupid Media is a group well-known around the world.

They are responsible for bringing you an amazing and unique online dating experience, available in many countries over the whole world, including Japan.

Single Japanese women frequently visit and use this site to find a suitable partner.

The Japanese version of the site is named Japancupid, and you can meet Japanese girls that are astounding and breathtaking located throughout the globe.

Creating an account and using the platform is, of course, free of charge.

There is a plethora of different sets of search options, allowing you to choose different filters, such as religion, languages, possibility to move, physical appearance, etc.

You pick the options that suit you the most and you can almost certainly expect to find a match that is just right for you, tailored to your selections and needs.

Aside from that, there are some additional premium membership options, each one adding some additional features, such as chat, ad removal and your profile being shown off and made more prominent compared to the ones of other users.

These options will greatly enhance your chances and improve the experience, so this is an investment that will bring great rewards for you in your chances of hooking up with single Japanese girls.

Traveler’s Guide for Meeting Japanese Women

Now, you know how to meet Japanese women online and, hopefully, you will soon score a date.

Of course, dating Japanese girls is not all that different from dating any other women in terms of making a good impression.

So, if you want some good Japanese girl dating tips, here is one for you – plan your date ahead and make here enjoy.

Here are some ideas, buddy boy.

1. Tokyo

Tokyo is the place to be if you are young and looking for fun and girls. It is both the capital and the largest city in Japan.

Being the most populated city in Japan, with almost nine million people living there, you’ll find a date in no time.

If you just want to have fun, look no further than Tokyo.

There are lots of young people that are “night-owls” 

The capital is renowned for its nightlife, and there are lots of clubs where you can meet gorgeous women.

To name a few, those are WARP Shinjuku, Club Camelot, and Ageha.

You can pick up a lot of pretty women in these clubs.

The atmosphere is amazing and unforgettable.

World-famous DJs are guests here pretty often.

This city is broadly considered to be expensive, but it is worth every penny.

2. Kyoto

Kyoto is a metropolis.

With a million and a half inhabitants, there is a high possibility of meeting someone you would like to date.

Sightseeing is a great idea for a “rendezvous”. 

Kyoto has about two thousand shrines and temples.

If you enjoy manga, the world’s latest obsession with Japan, then you can’t skip the Kyoto international manga museum.

Considering how popular these art forms are, you should probably know a lot about them.

I know these youngsters do. Start a conversation and woo her with your knowledge.

I guarantee you won’t run out of topics.

There are many romantic cafes and restaurants, perfectly suitable for a date, for the smart girls you want to win over.

But of course, if you want really cool places to meet a hot Japanese girl, there are numerous modern clubs you should visit.

Here are some worth mentioning:

  • World
  • Metro
  • Kitsune Kyoto
  • Weller’s Club
  • Socrates
  • Café la Siesta

I’ve only been to the first 4, but I’ve heard that Socrates and Café la Siesta are pretty cool to visit. A lot of like-minded girls in these clubs, so don’t waste your time!

3. Osaka

Osaka has two and a half million citizens, so you are bound to find someone there.

Just start with the JapanCupid, find a girl online. Girls from Osaka often use Japancupid, so it’s a good start.

Then, you can take her out to some of the most famous clubs (bars), such as Joule, Ghost ultra lounge, Club Circus, Sam and Dave one, or Alzar.

These are all awesome places, not just to take out your date, but to meet other girls as well.

Being popular as these clubs are, with a lot of alcohol in the game, who knows in what Japanese bed you might end up.

Pros and Cons of Dating a Japanese Woman

After you got to know a bit about some characteristics and attributes of Japanese women, you might ask yourself why would you choose Japanese women over any other nationality women.

What do you get and what are some of the pros and cons of dating?


1. Amazing cooking skills

Japan is known for its amazing food and diversity of flavors, but what people might not know is that Japanese girls learn about cooking and practice it throughout the school. 

They have entire classes and courses dedicated to leveling girl’s cooking skills.

So, mother material right out of school.

If you are gourmand and love eating, dating and marrying a Japanese woman is a sure way to satisfaction, in any way.

2. Caring personality

Japanese women are known to have a caring personality.

They are thought from a young age to take care of everyone they consider dear.

To say, they will definitely surprise you with a small gift every now and then, and they’ll make sure you get homemade chocolate for every Valentine’s Day.

3. They appreciate family  

If you are looking for a woman who appreciates home and family more than anything, Japanese women are meant for you.

They appreciate family time and will always choose to spend time with you instead of hanging out and partying with her friends.

To conclude, they are good to settle down!

4. Kawaii

Every girl in Japan is what they call ‘’Kawaii’’.

Kawaii is a word representing something cute, pure and innocent.

Japanese girl dress in a kawaii manner, speak and eat in kawaii way.

They tend to even raise their voice tone to a higher level just to make themselves cuter and more attractive.

Kawaii is a big trend in Japan and Japanese men love it! So If you have some fetish for cute girls that look innocent and pure, Japanese girls are an amazing choice.

5. Embracing the natural looks

Japan is known for its people who look way younger than you would expect.

Japanese women tend to spend a lot of time taking care of themselves, their skin and their bodies.

They are all about natural look with so little makeup for you to even notice.

They will always look fresh and neat, without being painted and covered in unnecessary makeup.

Of course, that’s just what I noticed during my time in Japan.

6. Wife material

Japanese women are what we can call a wife material.

Throughout their childhood, they learned from the best.

Japanese women are amazingly good at being wives.

They will take care of you and the entire household.

They are supportive and will always do what’s in the best interest of her family.

Fun fact: DOSHIRAK

Doshirak is a school lunch or work lunch pack that mothers/wives would make for their kids/husbands to take on the go.

They will put so much work and love in that tiny box. There are even competitions throughout the entire Japan in making doshirak boxes.

So, how serious Japanese women take the role of wives and mothers in their lives?

I’d say more than any other women from the Eastern side of the continent.


1. Language Barrier

The language barrier is something that all international couples and friends have to deal with.

Of course, nowadays it’s way easier than it was before.

Japanese people are keen to learn about new cultures and languages.

Also, there are many apps that let you translate even voice recordings, which makes it way easier for all of you.

And Japanese people are all into these tech/app things, so you won’t have any problems with the language.

But trust me, if she doesn’t speak a word of eng, you probably won’t be the one to teach her. They are somewhat stubborn and slow learners.

2. Is there such a thing as too much ‘’Kawaii’’

While Japanese men find it attractive that girls are acting cute and all innocent, not all men are into that thing.

Some men find it annoying and unnecessary.

Japanese girls sometimes act much younger than they are and expect to be taken care of.

Some men find that kind of behavior unattractive. Of course, if you are a fan of 20-years older looking unwrapped box than it appears, this is not a con for you.

3. Men pay for everything

In many different Asian countries, including Japan, girls are thought to expect of man to take care of them, even at an early stage of the relationship.

For instance, taking care of restaurant bills and buying gifts for your Japanese girlfriend is a must.

There is no such thing as a girl paying for a bill, or splitting the bill among you two.

You might think this is just the case among partners and people who are dating, but that is not the case.

Japanese girls expect their male friends to also take care of them.

Which was weird for me, at first. Then, I realized that this is a small sacrifice I had to make and that it is just the way they are thought.

So, being cheap is a huge no!

And here is one more piece of Japanese women dating tips – prepare your wallet to be a gentleman.

4. Parent’s approval

In Japanese culture, the parent plays a big role in a child’s life.

They are going to such extent as breaking marriages or engagements if their parent does not like their significant other.

So, if a Japanese dad doesn’t like you (“14? At your age, I was 16!”), you are partially screwed.

It is extremely common in Japan that girls would never marry or date a person if their entire family doesn’t approve.

5. No PDA (Public Display of Affection)

Japanese girls are really innocent and pure when it comes to physical contact in public.

Most of the time they will be too shy to hold hands, let alone anything more intimate than that.

This is not the case only at the beginning of the relationship, but also at a mature stage, even marriage.

6. Japanese HOT girls stereotype

Japanese girls are well known around the world for their appearances in adult movies and a lot of people tend to think Japanese girls are acting the way they do in movies, 24/7.

Yes, Japanese women are perceived as hot and sexy, but they are extremely shy in real life.

Sorry for breaking this stereotype down for you, but it is as it is.

How to Make a Japanese Woman Fall in Love with You

Now that you know what are some pros and cons of dating Japanese women, and let’s say you decided to start dating one, you need some guidance on how to make her fall in love with you.

First of all, they are not so easy to win over and not easy to maintain in a relationship, but there certainly are things that will make them, at last, a bit more approachable than they usually are.

1. They are Feminine, so be Manly

Japanese girls are usually really feminine. They are dressing in a feminine way, talk like that. They carry their femininity wherever they go.

They are not loud and always know their manners.

But one thing is sure, they expect you to be manly as hell!

I mean, not even consciously, but on a strange subconscious level, they want a manly man.

So, grow your beard and attack.

2. Respect her Family

Family is a top priority in the life of any Japanese woman.

Any Japanese girl would rarely go against her parents’ wishes even today.

Marriages and relationships are broken If her parents do not think you match well with their daughter.

That being said, you must respect her family.

And when I say that, I mean it “respect it at Colombian level”.

Because, other nations, like Russians or west Europe nations – they have respect for their parents, but parents don’t play such a role in their lives.

I mean, they can’t affect that much your relationship like Japanese parents can.

Usually, there is NO sleepover at her place (if she lives with her parents)!

Commonly, parents do not meet her boyfriend/girlfriend before the relationship among two gets pretty serious.

So, if it’s a short fling, this part doesn’t concern you. It’s a bit longer thing, it should concern you.

3. Religion

The dominant religion in Japan is Shinto and Buddhism. Religion plays a big role in a Japanese origin person’s life.

Shrines are extremely important to the Japanese people.

They have seasonal festivals that are held at that shrine.

If you are willing to impress a Japanese girl (mostly her parents, to be honest) you should be respecting their believes and customs regarding religion.

Consider this a short guide on parents.

4. The culture

To any Japanese person, including Japanese girls, their culture is extremely important.

Japan is a country with a long history.

Researching and knowing about it will make you stand out as someone who appreciates your significant other’s culture and history.

Also, you cannot truly meet certain culture until you know the language itself.

By learning the language you will for sure impress Japanese girls.

She knows how difficult the Japanese language is, so she will know how to appreciate the fact that you learned it. Small things really matter to any girl from Japan.

When I say, learning the language, I don’t mean fluently speaking it (or why not?) but just some basics – so you 2 can understand each other.

5. Fashion – HARAJUKU

One word is enough to describe fashion in Japan – Harajuku

Harajuku is a street in Japan where you can be anything you want to be.

You can express yourself through fashion and you’re going to be praised for it, not made fun of.

Japanese girls put a lot of effort into their fashion. You will never see them not ‘’ dolled up’’ even when running basic errands.

Couple Fashion is a huge thing in Japan. Japanese girl loves to dress complimentary with their boyfriends.

So if she suggests you two wear the same pink flannel, go for it! Nobody in Harajuku will think you’re funny.

But, before you get to that point, you’ll have to have some “swag”. Regular clothes in Japan are boring.

You’ll need to be classy, good, and wealthy- looking.

6. Obsession with non-Asian people

Japanese girls (and Japanese people in general) are obsessed with non-Asian people.

They are impressed with certain things they think they are lacking.

They envy other races on their different colored eyes, hair, even the shape of their heads!

We can all agree that women of Japan are hot and attractive in their own way, but we also know that they are just not curvy as Latina (Colombian or Brazilian) women.

That’s just simply a fact! Of course, there can be exceptions.

Just to make it even more presentable, I will give you the most common example.

If you decide to apply for a job overseas, Tokyo for example and you happen to be the only non-Asian person among applicants, be SURE that you will be their first choice.

Not because of your diploma, major or experience, but simply because you are quite different, let’s even dare to say, exotic to them.

They will love you because you’re ‘’so much’’ different from them.

The same thing happens when it comes to dating.

You can be the last choice of your dream girl in your town, but the moment you land in Japan, all Japanese girls’ eyes are going to be on YOU! And it’s pretty awesome.

That can be your ticket in if you’re smart enough to use it.

7. Take care of her

Japanese women love to be spoiled! They love feeling secure with you. Both financially and emotionally.

In Japan, women never pay for anything when they are with a man (both male friends or romantic partners). That’s just not the case.

Valentine’s Day is the day that she’ll spoil you.

Japanese women make homemade chocolate for their boyfriends and give it to them as a sign of love and admiration.

Man do not give gifts on Valentine’s day (which is awesome, right? J).

But that will not be the case on White Day.

White Day is the day that men are ‘’obligated’’ (yes, you’ve read well, obligated) to shower women with gifts.

And not gifts as chocolate, but something more expensive.

Also, in Japan, it is common that couples celebrate certain days in their relationship, such as the 22nd day, the 200th day, etc.

You are expected to give gifts on such occasions.

In case you are not from Japan, and that’s not common in your culture, make sure you remember these days and give her something small.

She’ll appreciate it more than you can think!

8. Provider vs Caregiver

Japanese women still believe that a woman is a caregiver while a man is supposed to be a provider.

Of course, that’s not always the case. There are also females in Japan who like to be independent and are strong feminists. But usually, that’s rarely a case.

She wants you to be the one that will take care of the things instead of her.

She will, in exchange, provide you with love, a warm meal and anything you can desire from a woman. Treat her like a queen, and she’ll treat you even better.

Japanese women love foreign guys because, from all these movies and dramas, they see foreign men as a strong role in their life. They need a dominant man!

9. Language can be your GO TO ticket

The first thing you should know about Japan is that there are not so many people fluent in English (let alone any other language).

That’s mainly because they think that kids in schools should primarily know the languages of surrounding countries and then expand their knowledge further on.

Also, if you see a Japanese traveler around the world, they are usually old people.

Nowadays, the most common way to meet someone from Japan is through dating apps and apps for language exchange.

If you’re not a fan of dating apps, you should try to get to know someone and teach each other your native languages.

Trust me, that is one of the easiest ways of meeting a potential partner if you’re living miles away.

Japanese people think highly of those who are persistent in learning their language.

It shows them that you care and that you have a deeper interest in their culture as a whole than understanding just a few phrases of anime or manga that you love.

Keep in mind that there are not many people out there who are willing to go that far for sweeping the Japanese woman of her feet.

Once she sees that you put so much effort into trying your best to understand her, she’ll know you’re a keeper.

Not to mention that this gives you a better chance of being on good terms with her family members since you’ll be able to talk to them directly and not looking in your phone and trying to translate what they said.

Learning the Japanese language is your go-to ticket! You are going to stand out from the crowd, and not by your ethnicity but also your will and persistence.

Doors will just open for you.

New opportunities concerning work will also be a good side effect of you mastering Japanese, but also it will make dating a Japanese woman a lot easier and pleasurable.

Luckily I didn’t need it for work when I was back then, but it helped a lot. After a year spent there, I was fluently speaking Japanese.

The Most Beautiful Japanese Women

After pointing out the most important things when it comes to dating Japanese women, it’s time for you to see the top of beauty society in Japan – hottest Japanese women.

The women listed down below are known for their exceptional beauty and natural look.

These three ladies are considered the most beautiful girls in Japan and have, as they say in Japan, ultimate idol look.

1. Mikie Hara

Mikie Hara is a model and actress born in Murakami Niigata, Japan. She was born on July 3, 1987.

She had her debut in Japanese drama called ‘’Cutie Honey, The live’’ as the main lead role. Mikie is still quite active in modeling and acting. Her last role was in the movie ”Leon’’ (2018).

Mikie is also known as a gravure idol and model.

She was often seen modeling for men’s magazines and that’s why she is considered as one of Japan’s sexiest and hottest women. I agree!

She doesn’t want her private life to be under the spotlight, so up until now, she didn’t reveal any of her boyfriends nor she exposed her relationship status.

2.  Kou Shibasaki

Kou Shibasaki is an actress and singer born and raised in Japan. Her birthday is on August 5, 1981, and her birthplace is Toshima – Ku, one of Tokyo’s districts.

Her real name is Yukie Yamamura. Like many other famous people in Japan, she uses a different name in media. It originated from the popular manga (comic book style in Japan). 

Her singing career started in 2002, and she became one of the best known J-pop singers producing hit by hit with each song she made.

Kou is also known outside of Japan. The role that made her famous in the entire world was in the movie ”Battle Royale’’, 2002 hit movie.

She was rewarded with many of Japan’s most famous awards, such as The Japan Academy Prize and Hochi Film Award.

3. Kiko Mizuhara

Kiko Mizuhara was born in October 1990. in Dallas, Texas.

She moved to Tokyo with her parents when she was 2 and has lived there ever since.

Her real name is Audrie Kiko Daniel Mizuhara.

She is a famous Japanese-American singer, model, and designer. Kiko’s career took off in 2010, starring in Japanese romantic drama Norwegian Wood.

She is well known for her fashion design and up to this day, stars such as Rihanna and Beyonce have worn clothes that she designed.

There is more to a Japanese woman if you take the time to understand them.

Here are more stunning photos of Japanese women on Instagram.

Final Word

I have shared what Japanese girls like in relationships, a lot of tips on how to meet Japanese women and a lot of other stuff.

I hope I broke some of the Japanese girl’s myths, but if you know any other, please let me know in the comments down below. It can be helpful for others, too.

Read through the ultimate guide to dating beautiful women. You will discover more tips that will help you get one of those sexy Japanese women of your dreams.

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