Spanish Men – Meeting, Dating, and More (LOTS of Pics)

Spanish Men – Meeting, Dating, and More (LOTS of Pics)

To all the Spanish men lovers out there…

Do you know how often you contemplated international dating wanting to be swooned away by his style, his passion, fervour, and his kind look at the same time?

If you are new here, make sure to check out all the men’s country guides to see how Spanish men compare in all categories.

And at the same time you thought how impossible that is…hm, what if I told you there are men exactly like this?

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Well, where are they, you may wonder? In Spain. They are in Spain. And they are absolutely gorgeous. Yeah, Antonio Banderas. That’s what I’m talking about!

If you are interested in Spanish men, then keep reading since you’ve come to the right place.

In this guide, I am going to share some first-hand experience about dating Spanish men and will also provide some useful tips for dating a Spanish man.

And pictures! Of course, there will be pictures a-plenty, as well as some hot Instagram profiles.

Here we go!

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Crucial Traits of Lovely Spanish Men

You know how there are some special qualities that help you distinguish people from different regions? I will try to provide a list now of the most significant features of typical Spanish men, so you know one when you see one.

To help you as best I can, let’s deal with the physical traits first and then move on to personal traits.

1. Physical appearance

I know you are curious enough, so let me tell you straight away – typical Spanish guys are neither hunks nor generally that large and tall as Russians, for example.

They are mostly of average height and not so stocky and muscularly built. On the other hand, they are not obese or anything. Just normal, you know?

Moreover, they aren’t typically blonde of hair as Scandinavians. Due to a mix of cultures and Arabic influence gained over time, they are mostly dark-haired. Still, of course, you will find a light-haired Spanish guy often enough.

They are also characterized by thick hair, though not as thick as you will find in Arabs for example.

Again, due to the environment (i.e. the lovely Mediterranean and the Atlantic), their skin is just lightly bronze so they always look tanned, leaving you unable to fix your gaze to anyone else.

Being sports lovers and huge football (soccer, not American football) fans, they take care of their physical appearance by regular exercise, balanced diet and a healthy lifestyle in general.

As mentioned previously, Spanish guys pay attention to their physical appearance and as a consequence can brag with being healthy. They also spend time gyms so they do not have problems with obesity. In addition, they are open fans of dancing.

Moreover, Spain is famous for its diverse and yet balanced cuisine. Offering a perfect mix of multiple lines of influence, Spanish cuisine is a significant factor contributing to the overall health of Spanish males.

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With optimum combination of meat, fish, vegetables, and fruit, they never have to be concerned with health issues arising from an inadequate diet.

Next, living in a sunny area, it also induces multiple benefits both physically and mentally. We know how the sun has positive effects on vitamin D levels, the general state of mind, etc, which as a consequence lead to a healthy individual.

What additionally contributes to the general good looks and health of the handsome Spanish men is the fact that they are not heavy drinkers, as Eastern Europeans tend to be. Of course, they have a drink on special occasions and over the weekend, but that is all.

With their expressive and big eyes, the Spanish are so pleasing to look (and wink :D) at. Now, as for their facial features in general, this is where you will find two opposing streaks.

Namely, some of these lovely gents have sharp and rough facial lines, looking way too seriously even if it’s obvious they are still young.

On the opposite end, though, you will find the typical mild, boyish face in a 40-year-old and you will be amazed how this is possible.

However, do not be confused by either of these since their broad and radiant smile will reassure you of their good looks and good nature.

In addition to their bushy eyebrows, they are also known for their thick and luxuriant hair they avoiding experimenting on. They trim it regularly, together with the beard, if they grow any. 

They are not fans of dyeing their hair either, so you will find natural dark haired Spaniards everywhere you go.

Finally, when you add all of these physical traits together, you get a little bit of a standard Caucasian with just a tad of Arabic and tropical exotic, which is a perfect recipe for you to fall in love with a hot Spanish stud.

physical appearance of Spanish men


We have already established how men from Spain take care of their physical appearance. So, as concerns the style, you will mostly find them casually dressed.

However, they are excellent in judging when to go out of this casual style and mix things up by showing up all elegant. They will always keep you wondering what he’ll show up in.

Interestingly, they are not so into fashion and the latest fashion trends as the French would be. Nor are they strictly “uniformed” at all times as Germans appear to be.

Moreover, they do not pay too much attention to ornamenting their body in terms of jewelry and similar. They keep it simple by wearing only a watch and you will rarely, almost never, see a guy wearing multiple rings as the Italians are prone to.

Their casual appearance combined with their fiery nature makes you fall for a Spanish guy sooner than you expected and you will find yourself dating a Spanish guy soon enough.

Still, their being casual is far from saying they are messy, they just keep it simple which is in full accord with their easy-going personality.

Are Spanish men stylish?

Additional Rating – The Tinder 1000 Swipe Rating

On top of the physical trait ratings for Spanish men, we have also created our own additional rating from the Spanish men we see on Tinder.  We call it the 1,000 Tinder swipe rating. It is extremely accurate and gives a very good overall picture of the men and how attractive they are.

This is how it works. 

We swiped through 1000 different profiles in all of the major cities of Spain and took note of how many handsome men there are. We jotted down how many 8’s, 9’s and 10’s there are based on their profile pictures. Here is a quick breakdown. 

  • 0-100 is poor
  • 100-200 is OK
  • 200-300 is Good
  • 300 – 400 Is Incredible 
  • 400 + is Mindblowing (There are only a few of these)

With a Tinder Plus subscription, you can teleport to anywhere in the world and swipe for yourself. Find out more below In the section about how to meet Spanish men. Also, make sure to check out my other country guides to see how their Tinder scores compare. 

Spanish men tinder score

What Personal Traits can Spanish Men Boast About?

1. Gentlemen rating

They are Gentlemen nation, to the bone!

Imagine them with rose between their teeth, singing songs under your window.

Anyhow, maybe the Spanish guys will not be as romantic and the French, but they will do the small gentlemanly things for you.

He will open the door of the car or a restaurant for you, he will hold your umbrella.

Maybe these things aren’t that romantic per se, but you cannot but think them romantic once a Spanish guy does these for you.

In any case, he will be the perfect, well-mannered gentleman as an Englishman would be, for example, though not as stuck-up (sorry, chaps!).

Spanish men chivalry rating

2. Integrity

Being relaxed and easy-going, the Spanish guys will tolerate almost anything.

Though, rest assured he will not tolerate your fooling around with other guys. Of course, he will not be jealous if you engage in a casual conversation – far from it.

But, don’t push your luck as far as trying to seduce someone in front of him. They do not like to be made fools or made fun of in this sense.

As for everything else, let them echar una siesta, and all will be well with the world again. And with the two of you, too!

Now seriously, besides the above, their easy-go-lucky attitude is transferred to other people’s actions so they do not hold a grudge for long.

They won’t make a fuss if you didn’t do the dishes – hell, he’s even gonna do them himself.

Nor will he make any obstacles to other aspects of your life that are not directly linked to him.

All in all, just don’t make him a cuckold (and by the way, which man would like to be made one), and you will be just fine.

He’ll go shopping with you, he’ll let you spend time with your girlfriends without checking up on you every five minutes

It’s like you have all the freedom of this world, and yet, once you get together, it sparks everywhere.

Spanish men integrity rating

3. Loyalty

If you ask me what are Spanish men like when it comes to loyalty, well it’s definitely a 10/10.

Their devotion and care towards people they hold dear is something that money can’t buy. Ask him a finger, he’ll give you a hand.

They are selfless in their actions towards others and they will do everything for their friends and family.

And, if you also wonder what are Spanish guys like in relationships, let me tell once you win over their hearts, they are indeed faithfully yours.

He will not divide his loyalties into many fronts – you are his and he is yours. He will be respectful and committed all the way through and he will expect you to reciprocate.

So, don’t you fall short of this quality.

Spanish men  are quite loyal

4. Honesty

They are honest, but remember girls – behind all that fire hides a little devil.

Overall, they are pretty straight forward, meaning, what comes to their mind goes out.

But they do like to flirt, so always keep him on a leash, or some hot Spanish girl might take him over.

That’s the only reason why I gave 8 out of 10. Otherwise, you won’t have problems hearing the truth coming from a Spanish guy.

Spanish men are honest

5. How Protective Are They?

Oh, they are highly protective. What’s theirs is theirs! You can’t touch their things.

They protect their females and raise their children in the same manner.

Ladies, I know how you secretly fantasize about what your stud would be like as a father once you see him with a random kid in a park.

And if you are concerned about Spanish males as fathers, don’t be!

They are committed to raising their children to become honest people without prejudice. A Spanish man will treat his children equally, without giving the advantage to sons just because they are males.

In this way, they teach their sons to treat women equally and teach their daughters to accept nothing less.

A Spanish guy us the kind of father who will take paternity leave without any second thoughts whether it’s appropriate or not, since this is still a taboo in many cultures. He will not leave it up to you to change diapers, putting the baby to sleep, and the like.

He will be there every step of the way. With a Spanish guy as a father, you will never have to worry about how you have to do everything on your own.

How protective are Spanish men?

6. Are they Resourceful?

As I mentioned a few paragraphs above, the handsome Spanish guys are very friendly and open when meeting new people.

Whether you are at a beach or local bars and theatres, they will not have a problem approaching and striking up a conversation, so you will not have any trouble finding Spanish friends in no time.

They’ll try to help you however they can. With all the friendliness comes the connection with a lot of people.

They will share any connection to help each other out.

They will also help you get around, find places. Even if they don’t know the language, they will use their hand or whatever, they will not say “Pardon, je ne comprend pas” as the French would (sorry, guys, but it’s true!)

Moreover, they are also very open about international dating, so if he finds you interesting enough, you will not have any trouble with dating a Spanish man soon enough.

How resourceful are Spanish men?

7. Maturity

Did I mention their fiery nature already? Seriously, did I tell you que son fuego, mujer!

A typical Spanish guy is all about maturity and passion. They will light your fire easily with their sexy talk and their rough and mellow and seductive voice at the same time.

Somehow, it’s like they know this and once they get to know you they will try to charm you in every way you know. And, take my word for it, the fact that you are a foreigner turns them on even more.

Speaking of qualities of Spanish men in bed, they’re fine, just fine. And I ain’t thinking about the siesta here, you know?

Even if you defy his advances at first, you won’t last long. But he will.

8. Self- Confidence

How could they not be self-confident?

They have a beautiful language that sounds sexy whichever words are spoken, they are sexy as hell and, romantic as heaven.

A big part of their self-confidence is their romantic nature. They know how to use it properly and make you feel like you are dating the most confident guy there is.

Just imagine all this Mediterranean sun spreading over your bodies while hugging, spending time on time on hidden beaches far away from gazing eyes?

What is even more romantic about these sexy Spanish men is the fact they will take you dancing without holding back their natural dancing moves.

And while dancing, there’s self-confidence all over the place.

Spanish men are self confident

9. Are they Friendly or Reserved?

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Oh, very friendly!

I already mentioned how guys from Spain are intrigued by your being a foreign girl, so they will do their best to charm you.

As a nation, they are generally open to strangers, the fact mirrored in encountering multiple other cultures across Spain. This is why they are not prejudiced against newcomers and they will accept you easily.

They don’t do this so they could later brag about having a foreign girlfriend. Their interest in you is genuine, so don’t miss out to share your stories and bed with a Spanish dude.

Hot Spanish guys are known to be all about no stress and chill out. At the same time, their fiery character does not allow them to spend too much time pondering some heavy topics.

They are all about action and always moving around. They don’t find it hard to sit in a car and drive somewhere just to spend a couple of hours.

The good thing is, Spain is large, and there will always be places to go and things to see with your Spanish boyfriend (but we’ll get to that).

Our Spanish boys love to spend time hanging out with their friends in their free time and are open to meeting strangers, which is great.

The good thing about them is that any time you go out with a Spanish guy, you do not have to worry about him getting wasted.

Interestingly, when you’re in the club, you will not see him standing motionless, but he will move his body the rhythm. Still, he will lack the overall smoothness of moves, as is found with Latino men, specifically Cubans or Mexicans. 

And, please, do not make a mistake to confuse the Spanish Spanish with Latino Spanish. They will not be insulted, they will merely see you as ignorant (and if you want to discover the world of Latino men, check out my guide on Mexican men).

Spanish men can be very friendly

Spanish men are not usually tall and hunk as compared to the Russians.

They are of the average height, relatively handsome, and good to go with. They are not truly into fashion but know’s what to put on as situation demands. They are gentle and can be trusted.

A typical Spanish man is very protective of their loved once. Read along as I take you through the beauty of dating a Spanish man.

Overall score for Spanish men

Where to Meet Spanish Men?

Since I have introduced you to the magical world of hot Spanish men, now you may pose the question of how to meet Spanish men. Well, that’s easy.

Just make sure to have an account on InternationalCupid!

International Cupid

Spanish are huge fans of online dating and moreover, international dating online is highly popular these days.

Among many popular websites, InternationalCupid, a member of the large Cupid family, takes up a rather high ranking among the users. Namely, it is equally popular with Spanish dating Spanish and Spanish dating foreigners.

Operating worldwide and being among the most trusted dating platforms, InternationalCupid offers a substantial database to its users and this is where you can browse and search any nation that comes to your mind.

But, we are focusing on the Spanish, though.

Anyhow, the site offers a free registration process which is quite simple (entering your details or proceeding with your Facebook account) and is followed by your profile set-up.

As a free member, you can send hearts to people you like, but if you decide to upgrade to premium you can strike up a conversation and let your Spanish crush now you are available for an actual date. Additionally, as a free member, you can also browse through photos of people you find interesting.

However, note that once you subscribe, you can send messages and gain access to a more refined search so you can find yourself a lovely Spaniard in no time.

With these refined search tools, you can limit your browsing to your current location (i.e. Spain), age preferences, sex, and the site will give you a variety of dudes to choose from.

The positive side of InternationalCupid is that the profiles are filled with details about the person you are interested in so you can easily conclude if the person might be right for you.

And, since internet safety is quite a relevant topic these days, the site protects its users by the good privacy policy and also strict anti-scam policies. In this way, you do not need to be concerned with any safety issues or frauds.

Moreover, since you must be on the move all the time, the site also offers an app (to Android users only), so you never miss out a chance to find a hot Spanish date.

Travelers’ Guide for Meeting Spanish Guys

If you think that this is the part where I tell you to go to Miami or Los Angeles to meet Spanish speaking Latinos, you couldn’t more wrong.

This is a guide our Spanish people living in Spain; and if you perhaps have preferences toward Latinos, then you should definitely check out my Brazilian men guide.

Anyhow, Spain is a large country with plenty of places to see and things to do. So, once you find your Spanish date, you will wish to go out with him. And since you’re most likely new in the neighborhood, you will have no idea what to do.

On one hand, you’ll feel like wanting to visit vivid landscapes and villages bordering France, next you’ll want to head for Ibiza and roll naked in the sand.

Still, don’t despair! Because I have just the thing you need. 

My modest travelers’ guide will help you choose places to see and visit with your crush or maybe even find one if you’re still solo.

Here we go!

1. Madrid

As the capital of the country and one of the largest cities, Madrid is a great place for you to meet single Spanish men. 

The city offers a variety of possibilities to meet new people every day and sometimes you won’t even know where to begin from.

So, to begin with, once you set a date with your cutie from InternationalCupid, why not take him to a rooftop bar? These offer a breath-taking view of the skyline so you can enjoy it while exchanging interesting personal and other details with someone you like. 

In a similar fashion, you can even embark on Teleférico, and see the city from above. The cable car will make your date all the more thrilling.

You can also make use of the fact that the city brims with history and numerous historical places you can go sightseeing. To begin with, the Royal family resides in Madrid, so this tells a lot about the history and things you can see.

In addition, and if you are the type, there are multiple museums to pay attention to, such as Reina Sofia Museum, Paseo del Prado and others. Moreover, in the very heart of the city, you will also find the Royal Academy of Fine Arts of San Fernando, attended by Picasso.

On the other hand, if you are more of a partying type, Madrid will not let you down in this regard either. Go to a Bohemian bar to see some live Flamenco performance. Or better, try to join in.

And, that is not all, Madrid will also dazzle you with its nightclubs where you can meet all the single Spanish guys you want. As a quick suggestion, don’t miss Teatro Barceló (Spanish version of Studio 54), Gotham and Fabrik.

2. Barcelona

Have you ever seen a film Vicky Cristina Barcelona? You should, anyhow.

Besides featuring all the famous faces from the acting world, it also paints a lovely picture of Barcelona.

As a second most-populated city in the country and the capital of Catalonia, Barcelona also has a bunch to offer.

From intriguing architecture to lovely beaches, it will be impossible to be bored or without ideas where to meet with you hot date

And here are just some of the possibilities to enjoy with your lovely date or to find one.

Barcelona is another city rich with history dating even from the pre-historic era. Being under Romans and Visigoths later, it can also brag with a variety of respective monuments to see, if you are into that. 

Even you are not, trust me, you should check out at least some of the gothic basilicas since they are stunning. At least do not skip the Minor Basilica of Sagrada familia, since this is the symbol of Barcelona

However, what distinguishes Barcelona from other Spanish cities over the world is the fact that this was the playground of Antoni Gaudi and his marvellous architecture and experimenting with traditional architectural forms are a must-see in Barcelona.

Not to mention the fact that his architecture is listed under world heritage. So, Parque Güell is a must. Palacio Güell and Casa Batlló too. But try not to miss the rest of them. It’s one of a kind experience.

Besides the exquisite architecture Barcelona has a lot more to offer, and if you really want to impress your date suggest that he takes you to Camp Nou. It is the stadium of FC Barcelona and he will be thrilled with your suggestion since they are huge football fans.

And who knows, you might even get a chance to get a glimpse of Lionel Messi J

Next, you can also meet Spanish guys at endless city beaches backed by shops and other things to keep you busy. Try Barceloneta or Diagonal Mar. There is no chance that you will end up empty-handed.

Next, single Spanish men from Barcelona also enjoy casual party nights so you can hit the clubs like Pacha Barcelona which is famous all over the world and try hooking up with some local stud.

And if you are not a fan of open spaces, take your Spanish crush to Opium, since that’s international beach club and maybe enjoy for a night swim later on.

3. Valencia

If you still wonder where to meet Spanish men, here’s another proposal for you. Valencia.

For all American women looking for Spanish men in Spain, this is the third largest city.

To begin with, this is where you will find the City of Arts and Sciences which is an ensemble of modern structures which serve to provide ultimate entertainment.

And just like with my other two suggestions, it is a place filled with historical monuments and some of the most notable landmarks to see is the masterpiece of Valencian Gothic architecture La Lonja de la Seda. This is where you can get just a hint of some previous times.

In addition to this, you can enjoy with your darling the remaining significant architectural and historical buildings such as Caso Historica, Valencia Cathedral and El Miguelete.

Next, Valencia is also a coastal city so it offers plenty of beaches where you can meet Spanish men if you haven’t met the one already.

Out of many, I can suggest that you begin with La Malvarrosa or EL Saler. They might not be that near to the city itself but it will be better to avoid the crowd and focus on your sweet darling.

And finally, you can choose from a variety of nightclubs. My first suggestion here would be Mya since it is the locals’ favorite. So, if you haven’t found that one lovely Spaniard, this a perfect answer to the question of how to meet a Spanish guy.

Additionally, you can try L’Umbracle, a stunning club in the open which can be very appealing in the hot summer days. In a similar line, you can also check Akuarela out.

So, from my little guide above you got the gist where to meet Spanish guys and have fun at the same time, whether it is sightseeing or straightforward clubbing.

Dating Spanish Men – Pros and Cons

When it comes to international dating, there are always some good and bad sides to consider before going through with it.

For example, what will keep the spark going is the fact that you will keep discovering new stuff every day. On the other hand, this might sometimes be just so frustrating.

Since I will guide you through both of these, let me first tell you why you should date a Spanish man.


1. He’s funny and amusing

A typical Spanish guy will make you laugh without making any special effort. He will not have to tell you forced jokes or anything. Simply, he will always something witty to say.

At the same time, his humor is profound and not superficial ending with racist jokes.

No, he’s a bigger man than that.

At the same time, you will never have to worry about being bored when you are with him.

He will give his best to keep your relationship interesting at any time. Simply, you will not have the time to ponder any dull and boring stuff.

With him, you will always look for the funny side of everything. But, when the situation requires seriousness, he will live up to it.

2. Language

If you speak at least a little Spanish, dating Spanish guys will help you improve your speaking skill significantly. 

Of course, you will want to impress him and you will give your best so you can understand each other.

On the other hand, he will also be appreciative and will reciprocate by trying to speak your language.

The good side is that with these sexy Spanish guys you will learn the “original” Spanish. This is not to say that Spanish spoken by hot Latinos is a fake. It’s just different.

3. He is caring

If, after all of this you have read so far, you still wonder what are Spanish men like in relationships, know that they are attentive to details and that your Spanish guy will never miss an opportunity to hug you or kiss you.

Moreover, he is devoted and close to his family which means that he is aware of the importance of family and is about the others.

Here, do not fall for the Spanish men stereotypes according to which they are mama’s boys. They are close to their mothers, though, but this only means they are attentive to women’s desires and needs.

4. They are hot and passionate

Remember Antonio Banderas? He’s hot, isn’t he? And, he’s Spanish.

We already established how they lead a healthy life and pay attention to their looks by going to the gym regularly. Living surrounded by the sea, they are also great swimmers which also plays a significant role in their physical appearance.

Next, they are passionate about things and people they care about. And, this passion of theirs, you will not only find it here.

Once you listen to stories about them, you might come across such Spanish guy stereotypes of how they are cheaters. And the fact that they are passionate my lead you to believe these. But, trust me, once he’s fallen for you, you will be the center of is world.

5. Cultural interchange

We’ve already established that Spain is a country with a rich history and cultural heritage.

It is the country of passionate dances, thrilling bullfighting, the country of sports and magnificent food.

Once you date a Spanish guy, you will have to make an effort to learn something about these since these will be deeply rooted in his identity. 

And once you get to know these, once you’ve tried Flamenco and once you’ve been to bullfighting or corrida, you will end up wanting for more.

Here I will not tell you more about the magnificent and almost magical architecture since you already had the travelers’ guide.


1. Language

Although learning language is listed under Pros, I am sorry to tell you that I need to include it as a disadvantage when dating a Spaniard.

Namely, the Spanish language is one of the most spoken languages around the globe since it is spoken in Spain and throughout Latin America. 

But, if you think I’ll be talking about Columbia now and fiery Columbians, you’re wrong. For Columbians, read my other guide, and here we are only dealing with Spanish people.

And besides, the variety of Spanish spoken in Latin America slightly differs from the Spanish spoken in Spain. So do not be that enthusiastic to use some local phrases you picked up from your Venezuelan neighbors

Chances are, the meaning will be lost on your sexy Spanish man.

In any case, communication with a Spanish guy might not run that smoothly. 

What is interesting about the Spanish people is the fact that they speak English with a strong Spanish accent. Just listen to Rafael Nadal sometimes and you will see exactly what I mean.

However, the good thing is they are willing to learn just to make you happy so you should at least try to do reciprocate.

2. They are passionate

I already mentioned they are fiery and this can sometimes be a great disadvantage when they believe something strongly they will fight for it with all their resources.

This will often cause you to argue if you don’t share his opinion. He will even go as far as convincing you that you are wrong.

The end result – you will be utterly annoyed.

3. Long-distance relationship

As for Spanish men dating tips, let me tell you that it’s all fun and games as long as you are in Spain.

If, from whatever reason you need to go back to the USA your relationship might be put to question.

Soon enough you will start doubting his devotion and so will he.

To avoid this, you need to give him multiple insurances that he will be in your mind all the time.

How to make a Spanish Man Fall in Love With You

Throughout this guide, you already picked up some Spanish guy dating tips. However, let’s go into some actual steps on how to make Spanish guy fall in love with you.

1. Be open and friendly

I said before how Spanish men are very straightforward and make friends easily.

If you want to win the heart of a Spanish man, do not act as an ice queen. I’m not saying you should jump him and take him to bed the very second you meet him.

No. Smile, be polite, don’t act all high and might just because you are a foreigner.

He will lose interest soon enough if you should act all unavailable.

2. Show interest in the things he likes

No guy on this planet likes to be ignored in terms of the conversation about something he holds dear.

If your guy likes football – learn something about his favourite team and engage in the conversation.

Especially if you do that in front of his friends, it will mean the world to him.

3. Don’t try to tie him down

How would you feel if you were unable to go out with your girlfriends whenever you want to? You would feel like an unequal member in the relationship. So, don’t do this to your sexy Spaniard.

Spanish dating culture is such that you do spend a lot of time holding hands, going out, having fun. But, enough is enough. 

Every once in awhile, he will need to spend some quality male time, so don’t deny him this.

So, if you still wonder what are Spanish guys like, know they need their free time even when you are their whole world.

And I know you like to be alone with your thoughts sometimes.

4. Be your own person

This doesn’t mean that you need to be strong-willed about everything.

Still, if you are easily seduced by various and opposing influences, namely, if today you like red and tomorrow you like blue just because your friend told you so, he will perceive you as superficial.

Even if you don’t agree with him about something, just say it. He will try to convince you that you are mistaken and that his way is the right way, but this doesn’t mean he will like you less.

5. Language barrier

I did mention language twice already; but, I have to do it again.

People often believe that Spanish people aren’t that great when it comes to speaking English. Well, this might be true of the older generation.

However, the younger guys we are focusing on here learn English as early as in the kindergarten, so this should not be a problem. Moreover, they need it for work, for travel, for dating, so you should not be worried about this topic.

Moreover, greater are the chances that you don’t speak Spanish than that they don’t speak any English

Still, when they speak it, they speak it with a Spanish accent, so you might have to struggle at first until you grow accustomed.

On the other hand, if you truly want to impress him, you cannot allow staying ignorant in the ways of the Spanish language.

Don’t let him be the only one to do the hard-working. We are fighting to be equal, so make an equal effort to improve your Spanish speaking skills.

6. Be proactive

In every possible aspect.

Don’t let him suggest things to do all the time. Do this every once in a while yourself.

Otherwise, he might even think you are not interested in spending time together or he will start doubting your commitment to him.

So, surprise him and book a romantic weekend for the two of you in a beach hotel or somewhere in the mountains. He will be thrilled.

Also, once you get down to business (yup, the one under the sheets), be involved. We know that when it comes to Spanish guys in bed and relevant skill, they have something to show.

But don’t expect him to do everything himself. This is the 21st century, and there is no reason for you to be shy.

And I believe with this you get the idea of how to seduce and win the heart of a typical Spanish man. It’s no big deal – just act natural and you are in the safe zone.

And if I haven’t convinced you that Spanish guys are worth dating, check out my final heading.

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Top 3 Hottest Spanish Men (among many)

1. Miguel Ángel Silvestre

To me, this guy will always be El Duque, the protagonist of the Spanish telenovela Sin tetas no hay paraíso.

Anyhow, this hot and sexy and steamy Spaniard is a rather popular Spanish actor with a fruitful career in films and series.

He is 37 years old and interestingly he started studying physiotherapy but chose theatre and film career instead.

Among many films and shows he made and his many prominent roles, let me just briefly mentioned that you can see him in Sense8 and Narcos which are broadcasted worldwide.

Meanwhile, in Spain he was mostly praised for his roles in Sin tetas no hay paraíso (crime story) and Velvet (period drama).

Since I could talk about MAS for days, let me stop here, and you just google a little and you’ll see what I am talking about.

2. Alvaro Soler

My second choice in the list of Spanish hot men is a world-famous singer Alvaro Soler.

Born in 1991 in Barcelona to a German father and a Spanish-Belgian mother, he reached world fame with one of his first singles Bajo el Mismo sol “Under the Same Sun” in 2015. 

The song was a real hit since Jenifer Lopez took interest in the song so they decided to re-write it as a duet and release it the very same year.

His breakthrough was officially done with the release of the song Sofia which acquired him the world fame. After this, other hits followed, and the most notable one would be La Cintura.

Anyhow, Alvaro is adored by many teenagers due to his boyish look even though his almost 30. Still, many of us are unable to resist his charming and cute boyish smile.

Together with his lovely voice, this is just another reason that is tours and concerts are highly visited.

3. Javier Bardem

Have you ever been jealous of Penelope Cruz? And if not, why?

The smile. The hair. The character. The charm. The husband. Oh, the HUSBAND! 

One and only Javier Bardem. 

Are you jealous now?

Even though lovely Javier is old enough to be your dad (and mine too), I just couldn’t leave him out. 

With is ruffian look and almost an angelic smile, you cannot but be turned on by this man (sorry, Penelope!).

Anyhow, Bardem’s skills as an actor are confirmed by the fact that he is a recipient of Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor (No Country for Old Men), BAFTA Award and many others.

In addition to No Country for Old Men, his other notable roles are in the films Jamón, jamón, Vicky Cristina Barcelona, Mar adentro and Skyfall.

And, Besides being an actor, he is also an environmental activist which a reason to like him only the more.

The list of hot and famous Spanish men doesn’t end here of course. Honestly, these are my personal favourites and of course, you can find yours in addition to your lovely Spanish date.

Final Word

Unfortunately, this is where I end my little guide on Spanish men and how and some Spanish guy dating tips.

Now that you have been given all the useful tips, you are free to roam Spanish cities in the quest for your Spanish adventure.

Just make sure that you find one guy to stick to and he will be yours till the end of time.

Or at least, as long as you want each other.

Anyhow, have fun with your Spanish boyfriend no matter how long it lasts.

I will Implore you to take a trip to Spain after visiting our Ultimate Guide to dating men, where you will find all you need to get hooked to a Spanish Man.

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