Traveling the world has made me more open-minded than I ever thought I could be. If you are new here, make sure to check out all the men’s country guides to see how Australian men compare in all categories.
It made me realize how many different cultures and people there are in the world, and how much the place that you come from can have an effect on the kind of person you are.
In addition to that, it helped me figure out all the magic behind international dating and there’s no better place to figure all of this out than Australia.
So get ready, because I’m about to break some Australian men stereotypes and give you some tips for dating an Australian man.
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What are Australian men like?
Well, the answer to this question is a bit complicated.
The first thing that you should know is that Australia, similar to America, is a melting pot of different cultures because essentially everyone is an immigrant.
After the Second World War, a lot of people moved to Australia, making it one of the most diverse places, which means that we can’t generalize the whole population when we talk about their characteristics.
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This is especially true for the way that they look, but they definitely have a lot of similarities when it comes to the way that they act.
So, what are Australian men like? Read on to find out more about typical Australian men.
What Physical Traits Distinguish Australian Men from Other Men
We’ve all encountered the stereotype that portrays sexy Australian men as these surfer guys who are built like Greek gods: tall, blonde, handsome, and acting like they don’t have a care in world.
While there are some Australian guys that look like that, the truth is a bit different.
As mentioned above, Australia is a very diverse country, so I can’t say that all of them look the same.
However, most people that live in Australia are of British descent, but also Irish, Italian, and German. So there’s definitely a bigger number of Caucasian people, but there’s also a lot of Australians with Asian origins too.
I can also say that the stereotype about their height is kind of true, Australian males are pretty tall! The average height of an Australian man is around 5’11”, which I think is perfect.
When it comes to the way that they’re built and the usual color of their hair and eyes, I can’t really say that there’s a true answer to that.
All in all, there’s not a definite way that Australians look like, but there’s definitely a type for everybody’s taste!
Another extremely true thing coming from a stereotype about Australian men is that they are really laid-back. Like really really laid-back.
They don’t actually care that much about the way that they dress, and you shouldn’t be surprised if you go on a date with him and he comes in shorts and a t-shirt, while you look like it has taken you hours to get ready, which it did.
Actually, they might even think that you’re trying too hard if you do this, so keep in mind that they are the kind of guys who just like to chill out and try to match that energy.
However, even if they’re laid back when it comes to style, they still know how to clean up nicely and they take good care of themselves.
Just because he wears sandals to your date doesn’t mean that he’s unaware of how his looks and hygiene affect the opinion that people around have about him.
So, don’t expect him to act like a model, but know that he knows what he’s doing.
However, the way that somebody looks or the amount of style that they have can’t completely describe what are they like on the inside and the way that they’ll act when they’re in a relationship with you.
What are Australian men like in relationships?
Additional Rating – The Tinder 1000 Swipe Rating
On top of the physical trait ratings for Australian men, we have also created our own additional rating from the Australian men we see on Tinder. We call it the 1,000 Tinder swipe rating. It is extremely accurate and gives a very good overall picture of the men and how attractive they are.
This is how it works.
We swiped through 1000 different profiles in all of the major cities of Australia and took note of how many handsome men there are. We jotted down how many 8’s, 9’s and 10’s there are based on their profile pictures. Here is a quick breakdown.
- 0-100 is poor
- 100-200 is OK
- 200-300 is Good
- 300 – 400 Is Incredible
- 400 + is Mindblowing (There are only a few of these)
With a Tinder Plus subscription, you can teleport to anywhere in the world and swipe for yourself. Find out more below In the section about how to meet Australian men. Also, make sure to check out my other country guides to see how their Tinder scores compare.
Let’s be honest, the character is more important than looks, especially if you’re looking for somebody to share a deeper connection and have a more serious relationship with.
That’s why it’s more important to meet Australian men on a deeper level because dating an Australian guy isn’t just about how tall they are or how they dress.
But remember, we can’t generalize the whole nation based on the way that a few of them act, but there are still dome things that almost all Australian guys have in common and you might have heard about some of them already.
Hopefully, my experience and knowledge will help you break some Australian guy stereotypes and help you get to know some hot Australian men more.
1. Gentleman Rating
As I mentioned above, Australian men are laid-back and they like to live a stress-free life without putting too much effort into anything, really.
They’re kind of like that when it comes to being a gentleman, too.
First of all, I can definitely say that dating Australian men won’t be like dating a gentleman that you’re used to seeing in movies and media in general.
Well, to be honest, the notion of a traditional old school gentleman kind of lost its point in the last couple of years, especially now when gender equality has been more prominent in all areas of life.
He might not pull out your chair, but maybe he’ll open the door for you from time to time, or even pay the bill.
The one thing that he’s definitely going to do for you, and which I think makes them the biggest gentlemen of all time, is that they will get rid of all the spiders and insects that scare you without batting an eyelash!
Just imagine some hot Australian guys saving you from a tiny little spider. True gentlemen and true heroes!
You should know that the Australian dating culture is a bit different, and they don’t really “hang out” as much as Americans do. They usually go straight in and know what they want out of the date.
To summarize, Australians are passionate and they behave nicely. They might act like a traditional gentleman from time to time, but the standards are a lot different than before.
When it comes to Australian men in bed, they’re completely passionate and act like gentlemen.
However, American women looking for Australian men might find it weird that sleeping together on the first date isn’t considered to be un-gentlemanly in Australia.
The one answer that I can give to the question “What are Australian guys like?” is that they know what they want.
Australian men definitely know who they are, what they want in life, and what they want from a relationship.
They respect their family and their country immensely, and they know exactly what they stand for.
This is why you should show them respect if you want to be shown that same respect in return.
I have to give them the highest grade for this one because I’m tired of spending time with men who don’t know where their life is going. It’s just tiring.
If you’re looking for a man who won’t lie to you, and you like Australians, look no further because you’re definitely in the right spot.
Dating Australian guys will never make you feel like you’re in a relationship with a mystery that you have yet to solve because they will tell you exactly what they want at any point in time.
Being with someone who says exactly what they mean can be refreshing, but it can also be hurtful, especially if that person doesn’t think about what they’re saying before they speak.
Lucky for you, all these handsome Australian men are honest, but not brutally honest.
The truth is that the Australian guys are honest and loyal, but nobody’s perfect.
There are still guys out there that won’t be loyal, but they might be honest about, which changes nothing.
They’re rare, but here’s to hoping that you never run into one.
You should know that there are more women in Australia than men, so these guys have plenty to choose from and it’s usually the reason why there aren’t that many single Australian men.
5. How protective are they?
You don’t have to worry about your protection as long as you have an Australian guy right by your side.
Men from Australia are known for being basically fearless, but you should be a good girlfriend and remind them from time to time that they are not as invincible as they like to think they are.
One of the biggest threats that your Australian boyfriend is going to protect you against is an awful scary thing that I mentioned before – spiders.
Typical Australian guys aren’t afraid of such things because they’re used to seeing them a lot, so be sure that he’ll be the one to get rid of that nasty spider right away.
However, don’t expect of him to get in a fight with a kangaroo or the black widow just to save you.
6. Are they resourceful?
It’s safe to say that Australian guys are resourceful in every meaning of the word.
They most certainly know how to take care of themselves, their family, and their household.
Their financial resourcefulness is also usually really great, as Australia has a high living standard and men from this country don’t shy away from work.
Australian men can get a little bit immature, but let’s start with the good side of it: their humor.
Their humor is really dry and sarcastic, and you have to be able to match it.
However, even though they’re honest and loyal, Australian men could work a bit on being less self-centered.
These guys are capable of leaving you alone for a couple of months just so they can travel a bit, and you can call me crazy all you want, but I don’t think that doing that without a care for your partner’s feelings is the way that a grown-up should act like.
Honestly, I wish I had as much confidence as a typical guy from Australia does.
I said it before and I’ll say it again, these guys know what they want and they’re not afraid to get it.
They also know exactly what makes them so great and what makes them deserve whatever it is that they want to get.
However, they can get a bit too confident at times, but who doesn’t?
And when it comes to Australian guys in bed, they are just as confident.
9. Are they friendly or reserved?
Australians, in general, have to be one of the friendliest people on this planet.
I don’t know if that comes from the fact that their country is so far away from anyone else, but these guys are so kind and welcoming even to strangers that they have never seen before in their life!
Aside from being friendly to foreigners, they are also sociable people in general.
There’s nothing that your future Australian boyfriend is going to like more than just hanging out with his mates after work while drinking a couple of veers to pass the time.
No, really. These guys really like two things: their beer and their mates.
If you’re wondering where to meet Australian men, a pub is probably going to be your best bet, and chances are that he’s going to be surrounded by some more handsome Australian guys.
Also, you shouldn’t be afraid of getting him to meet some of your other friends. Chances are that he’s going to fit right in and your friends are going to absolutely love him.
Australian men are tall, handsome, and love to surf but are laid-back when it comes to their appearance.
If you want a man that acts gentlemanly and is passionate about his love life, then you are in the right place.
They love to treat people with respect, anyone they date is not exempted as long as it is reciprocal.
Are there more vibes to these handsome hunks? Definitely!
Sit back as we unveil the pros and cons of being in a relationship with one of them.
Dating an Australian Man: Pros and Cons
International dating can get really tough in general, but especially when you come from cultures that are so similar and yet so completely different.
Here are some of the pros and cons of dating men from Australia, but you’ll see that none of them are as bad as you think they could be.
Their never-ending bravery
So, have I mentioned spiders already? I don’t think I did.
All jokes aside, these guys are definitely going to protect you from anything other than animals that they know are poisonous or really dangerous.
Also, they are brave in general and if you’re usually scared of everything these guys are going to do something to you that you thought was impossible. They’re going to help you be less afraid.
Honestly, their bravery is contagious.
They will never ever lie to you
One of the biggest pros that there are when it comes to dating Australian guys is that they won’t lie to you.
They will tell you exactly what’s going on and what they want, but they might just be too closed off when it comes to talking about the way that they feel.
However, getting them to talk about this isn’t going to be tough, you just have to show them that they can trust you and they’ll be telling you anything in no time.
All in all, these guys are a breath of fresh air because with them you’ll never have to guess.
Their humor will have you doubling over in laughter
Australian guys are known for their sarcastic and dry humor, but you have to be a special kind of gal to appreciate it.
You might not be able to handle their deadpan delivery at first, but as the time goes on you’ll be able to figure out when they’re making a joke and you’ll be joining them in the thrill.
These guys will definitely have you laughing in no time, and you’ll wonder how your date went by so fast.
They drink a lot
One of the biggest things that bothered me when it comes to dating an Australian man is that they drink so much alcohol at all times.
Don’t get me wrong, they aren’t alcoholics per se, meaning they don’t drink to get drunk.
They actually drink a lot of beer because they enjoy the taste of it, but if you ask me drinking is still drinking.
Don’t be surprised if you go to meet your Australian man for a date and he’s already had a few.
He might be too laid-back
I don’t have anything against trying to lead a stress-free life, but sometimes these dudes really know how to cross the line.
You can’t actually go through life without caring about what happens. Well, you can, but don’t expect great results from it. At least that’s my opinion.
Another thing that they might be too chill about is their fashion sense. These guys would wear their thongs anyway if it was up to them. Thongs? Oh, we call them flip flops.
Sometimes you just got to panic and care even a little bit.
They like to travel a lot, but they’ll probably do it without you
I have a theory that Australians like to travel so much because they are so far away from anyone else, and something tells me that I am absolutely right.
Chances are your Australian guy is going to decide to go on a trip of a lifetime, and he’s just going to tell you about it.
I get it, they love to travel alone, but couldn’t they just let you know sooner?
How to meet Australian men
As I mentioned before, Australian men are really friendly and they love to go out with their friends, so your best bet might be getting out of the house and meeting one of them in real life.
The best places where you can go in hopes of meeting some sexy Australian guys are most likely going to be the pubs, where you’re going to find them drinking beers and maybe even watching a game or two with their best mates.
However, there are a lot of problems when it comes to finding single Australian guys.
As I mentioned before, the number of women in Australia is much higher than the number of men and that means that most of the men are taken.
Fortunately for you, the places where you can find an abundance of single Australian guys are the various dating websites.
One of the most used dating websites in Australia is the eHarmony.
You might have already heard of this dating website because it’s popular all around the world and there are millions of people using it every day.
If you’re wondering how to meet Australian men online, this is the best place to go.
Setting up your account on this website isn’t an easy task, though, and it can take you a while depending on how fast you go. All things considered, it should take you more than 10 minutes to finish the whole process.
Firstly, you can choose to sign up for this website either via email or your Facebook account, although opting for the email option is always better for your privacy. This is the part that will take you the least amount of time.
Next, it’s time to answer some questioners about yourself. You actually can’t finish the signing up process without answering these and there’s no way to skip them.
They might sound stupid or time-consuming at first, but this is the part that makes eHarmony such a great matchmaking website.
By answering all of those questions you better your chances of getting a match that actually has the same interests and hobbies as you do, someone who is similar to you and who will understand where you’re coming from.
Some of these questions are easy to answer, like where you come from, how old you are and other similar things.
However, some of them ask you what you would do in certain situations, and they’re a bit more complicated, but you know that they really try to get to know you in order to pick the best match for you.
After you’re done answering all of the questions it’s time to do the one last thing: setting up your profile photo!
Your profile photo should be high-quality and make you look nice, it should also be clearly showing your face, preferably with a smile on.
Now that everything is set up, you’re ready to meet Australian guys!
When it comes to searching for your match, you can narrow down the search based on age and location.
However, one of the biggest downsides of eHarmony is that you have to be a paying member if you actually want to make any progress in your international dating adventure.
Being a free member on eHarmony is fine, but don’t expect to have a normal conversation with anyone this way.
Free members can only use the messaging option if they send the generated questions that eHarmony gives them, and you can only send up to five of them.
If you want to have a normal conversation with anyone on this dating website you’re going to have to pay up, but I honestly think that it’s worth it, especially if you’re looking for something more serious.
The people using this website are mostly aged between 25 to 34, so it’s safe to say that they’re also looking for a longer-lasting connection.
There’s also a really good male to female ratio, so you should be able to find plenty of single Australian guys on here.
Now that you know where to meet Australian guys, it’s time to teach you how to win them over!
How to conquer an Australian man’s heart
I have already answered the question “what are Australian guys like in relationships?”, but how do you get them to be in the said relationship?
Not gonna lie, this isn’t such a hard task, but there are some things that you can do to make him fall head over heels for you.
I have some Australian men dating tips just for you!
1. Show him that you’re a chill person
There’s nothing that’s going to make your Australian guy like you more than showing him that you’re as chill as he is.
Being a laid-back person is important to them because they want to lead a stress-free life, and the last thing that they need is a girlfriend that keeps stopping them from doing so.
In other words, don’t kill his vibe.
2. Football is sacred, and you should learn something about it
If you meet an Australian guy, chances are that he’s into sports, and the one sport that they prefer above all else is probably football.
So if you didn’t already know something about all the leagues in Australia it’s time to learn.
Surprise your man by actually knowing what’s going on in the world of football and he will be in love with you in no time.
3. Be active
They don’t only love to watch sports, they also likely love to actually do them.
Go with your man to the beach or let him take you hiking to the great outback and have some fun while you sweat.
There are plenty of things that you can do together in Australia. This country is known for its beautiful beaches where you can get to the ocean filled with amazing coral reefs.
Show him that you’re adventurous and he’ll definitely love you for it!
4. Make him some food, but it has to have meat in it
Every meal that an Australian guy eats has to have meat in it in some form or the other.
They also really like to eat, so if you’re ever making him some food make sure that it has plenty of meat in it, otherwise he’s probably not going to like it.
Another thing that I should add is that these guys really like having barbecues. And if you think that you know how to use a barbecue and make some mean burgers, you’re wrong.
Australian guys are just better at this.
Wondering how to meet an Australian guy? Ask him to show you his barbecue.
5. Respect his mates
He loves his guy friends and chances are that you’re going to love them too, but even you feel like they aren’t your type of friends you should still show them some respect.
There’s a good reason why they have been friends for so long, these guys have probably been with him through thick and thin.
After all, chances are that they’re going to become great friends of yours too, and before you know it you’ll be invited to barbecues with them all the time!
Top 3 hottest Australian men
This was a long list for me, and it was really hard to narrow down, but I managed to do it somehow.
Without further ado, here are the top 3 hottest Australian men!
This guy is a definite number one on this list. I mean, hello? Have you seen him?
You probably know him as Thor, the sexy Nordic god turned Marvel superhero.
This man is built like a good too! He really fits the blonde surfer stereotype, but I just had to put him on the list.
He’s from Melbourne, and he first started his career acting in some Australian shows, but they were enough to propel him to Hollywood stardom.
He’s charming, tall and handsome! What more could a woman want?
This 22-year-old model has been completely taking over the fashion industry in the last couple of years.
He also fits the surfer-dude stereotype, but I can’t complain.
He was a part of multiple campaigns for various famous luxury brands, including Balmain, Versace, and Tom Ford.
Casey Conway is a 34-year-old former rugby player.
He’s built like a god, he’s tall and he’s just so handsome in general.
Unfortunately, he had to stop playing rugby because he suffered an injury, but that didn’t stop him from being physically active while he steals all of our hearts with just his smile.
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Now that you have more knowledge about Australian men and all the possible Australian guy dating tips, I guess it is time for you to take that big step of finding love that you desire out there in Australia.
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