Hello and welcome to the sugar bowl!
All you aspiring sugar daddies and sugar mamas, seeking sugar daddy advice for the best experience, come and see what I have prepared for you.
Are you unsure how to become an SD/SM? Do you think it is hard or complicated?
Let me tell you that it is not!
I am here to pour all of my experience into the sugar daddy advice blog and help you find your way around this great world of many pleasures.
Here you will discover:
I broke down the whole process into the four most important segments, where you will find all the necessary sugar daddy tips.Is your dating app giving you the best chance for success? Make sure to take our online dating site/app quiz to find out. People who follow our dating site suggestions have on average 2 more dates per month.
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4 Sugar Daddy Tips for a Successful Sugar Daddy
1. Find the Perfect Girl
Here is the thing – you will not find your ideal match on your first try.
The odds for that are teeny tiny.
Now that you have decided to start playing the sugar daddy game, you should first brace yourself for a long and maybe tiresome ride towards that match that you truly need.
Even though you can find a baby in any place in the world, I would recommend you to create an account on one of the sugar dating websites such as Tinder or Seekingarrangement.
Social media can also be a good place to find advice for sugar daddies with all the information you may possibly need.
Let me show you the steps you need to take to find a great babe.
I will add some sugar daddy first date advice as well.
- Find the best dating site that fits your sugaring needs.
- Learn about sugar baby rules so that you can get to know how to find a sugar daddy fast and how to spot a sugar daddy.
- Make an appealing profile that will attract just the kind of girls you want.
- If you feel you have to protect your identity, do so. Use a generic name, don’t give out sensitive information. But don’t conceal too much or you will not attract anyone.
- Get into messaging with the potential SBs, and this step will start filtering out the girls who are not for you.
- Choose a few that make you feel best and arrange to meet up with them in real life.
- Remember that it is not only the girls who are expected to look nice – find some beauty tips for men and prepare for those dates.
- If you want to be a real gentleman, take your potential sugar baby out to a public place, for example, a nice restaurant in New York.
- Don’t offer to take her to a private room or any such solitary place unless she asks you to. There will be time for that once you get to know each other.
- Be upfront about what you want and ask her to be the same.
- Show interest in her life and share what you are all about.
- Think about the question ‘How did you get into sugaring?’ You should have a decent answer but may also choose to ask your date the same.
- On your first date, you might discuss the details of your arrangement. These include where, when, and how often you will meet; what her compensation will be, and whether you will give her the sugar baby allowance per visit or on monthly basis.
- Whether you eventually decide to stick to her or not, treat every young woman like a true gentleman.
Special tip: it is imperative that you know the sugaring slang, such as SB/SD (sugar baby and sugar daddy), M&G (meet and greet), PPM (pay per meet), experience daddy, Splenda daddy, salt daddy, pump and dump.
2. Reach an Arrangement Satisfying for Both
Once you get to know a bit about each other, you as her potential sugar daddy will eventually have to say: “Let’s talk sugar.”
What I mean is that, if you two hit it off, this transactional relationship will have to be agreed upon.
There are several items that you need to discuss in the following string of sugar daddy arrangement tips.
It is expected that both of you have decided on what you want out of this beneficial relationship, and what kind of relationship interests you, long-term (like eHarmony or Tinder) or casual hookups and no-strings-attached encounters (like BeNaughty or Ashley Madison).
Reaching an agreement needs to be done in an upfront and direct manner.
You should be understanding and reasonable.
Listen to what she tells you about herself, try to understand her standpoint and needs.
If you reach a genuine connection with your SB, you will feel a real wish to contribute to her improving lifestyle.
So, what should you arrange with her? Here are some ideas to think about.
- Frequency of meetings.
- Place of meetings.
- Attending public events together.
- Traveling together.
- Sex included. (You must not force or trick her into sex work!)
- Exclusivity – do you want to be her only SD?
- Special demands regarding her looks, makeup, etc.
As allowance is a complex subject, I will dedicate some more space to giving you a short sugar baby allowance guide here.
If you are new in the sugar bowl, the question of compensation will probably be the most tiresome to decide on.
How much should you give her? How often? When? What about gifts?
There are no fixed sums, everything is flexible based on your possibilities and her needs.
Before the first date, you should think well about how much you can and are willing to give her.
Some of the factors, other than your wealth, to consider are how often you want to see her and her background.
You can try and find out how much is usually given in your surroundings.
I will give you a hint regarding big US cities such as New York or Los Angeles.
A PPV would go from $300 to $1,800 and a monthly allowance between $2,000 and $10,000.
Smaller cities have slightly smaller compensations, of course.
If you want to keep track of the allowance, you can download the sugar baby allowance calculator.
The compensation can be given in various ways and frequency: in cash or transferred to Paypal and rarely to a bank account; paid for every visit, once or twice a month, or weekly.
Special tip: if you want to see her only occasionally or if you have a few SBs, it is better to do PPV. On the other hand, if you plan to see her more often and for a longer time, you may set up a monthly allowance.
Gifts can be given or not, that also depends on you.
But mind that girls like receiving gifts, especially since they probably can’t afford expensive shoes or clothes on their regular income.
There are three other types of daddies that you should be aware of:
- ‘Experience daddies’ are those who give presents instead of money as compensation.
- ‘Splenda daddies’ are those who really want to be sugar daddies but just don’t have enough money to spoil their SBs properly.
- ‘Salt daddies‘ are those who just pose as SDs but are actually fakes and have no intention of engaging in a real sugar relationship.
3. Maintain a Good Relationship
If you are in the sugaring world, you most certainly want to have a great young person by your side.
Some sugar daddy relationship expectations advice will not hurt.
Even though this relationship comes with no strings attached, you must have in mind that this is a real person in front of you.
This is a real relationship.
And you should treat her well if you want to keep her by maintaining the sugar baby etiquette.
I will show you some basic mistakes that daddies make and help you avoid them.
A. Don’t forget your plans.
Should I even explain this?
I understand that you are a busy man and that unforeseen events may happen at any time.
But have in mind that your sugar baby has a real-life as well.
She isn’t just sitting around doing nothing and waiting for you to call her.
She has cleared her schedule for you. You should respect that.
Call and cancel; make amends if it was a big night or if you planned to go to a place that is special for her.
B. Have a two-way conversation.
Yes, you are the paying party to this relationship. But are you the only party?
A sugar relationship is much similar to a regular relationship in this aspect.
Making an effort is essential.
So, don’t let yourself get totally engrossed in your own stories the whole evening.
Show interest in her. This goes especially for the first date.
The first date is the time for you two to get to know each other.
Not only for her to get to know you.
As you will be spending a lot of time with her, it would be a great asset to be familiar with her interests and keep the conversation going.
C. Remember – she has free will.
You know that a sugar baby lifestyle gives the young woman the freedom to do what she wants.
I know, you give her allowance and you two have an agreement about meetings and compensation and all.
But she doesn’t owe anything to you.
It is of her own free will that she entered into this relationship.
She can get out of the sugar bowl as well.
What you have is a transaction – your allowance for her companionship (and/or whatever else you agreed on).
D. Don’t be rude and condescending.
Some millennials don’t care about whether you swear or yell in public.
Some don’t care about what you think about them, as long as they get what they want.
But note, these are a big, big minority.
Much like with regular dating, you ought to be careful about your behavior.
After all, you are probably a respected and successful man, and you should keep your reputation.
Have in mind that you two are equal human beings and treat her as such.
4. If Things Get Serious, Keep Them Serious
When you have found the right sugar baby for yourself, decided what type of relationship you want to have, and made all the necessary arrangements, you should have in mind how to keep things serious and not lose her.
The most important thing is to relax and enjoy the ride.
You have gone all the way to find this beautiful young thing that will make your life wonderful.
A. Show your true self
Be honest with her. Don’t tell her fibs. Don’t try to trick her.
She deserves an honest and decent, serious man by her side.
Telling her that you have a hobby you aren’t really into or that you hate something you actually love can lead you to an ultimately complicated web of lies.
What kind of a relationship is this behavior leading to?
B. Express your limits
One of the ways many sugar daddies deceive their babies is by telling them that they want things they really don’t.
Obviously, I will tell you to never do that.
Limits are very important in the sugaring world.
Keeping things direct and straightforward is the way to a long-lasting deal.
Do you want to avoid a married sugar baby? Or do you disprove of those who talk loudly in a public place?
What is your deal-breaker?
Think thoroughly about this and tell her!
She must have the chance to quit the arrangement if she decides not to comply with your needs.
And you need the chance to find a baby who is better for you.
C. Beware of the future
Most of the sugar daddy dating tips focus on the present.
But in a serious sugar relationship, you should be mindful that you never know what the future holds for you two.
You will probably become very close, have a great time together, and thoroughly enjoy each other’s company.
However, will that stay the same forever? You surely know that it won’t.
It would be beneficial for you to watch out for the signs that she wants more than you can give her.
She will maybe want to get married. Maybe she wants to have kids.
If you can’t give her that when the time comes, be prepared to let her go.
This is all for today. I hope that you had fun reading my sugar daddy guide.
Before I leave you to think about all the nuances of becoming a part of the sugaring world, I would like to remind you to smile and enjoy.
This will be an exciting ride, from the uncertainty of searching for the right girl, through the excitement of getting to know her, to all the pleasures of spending countless incredible hours with the beauty of your choice.