You’ve decided to pursue the sugar baby lifestyle but you’re not sure how to find the perfect sugar daddy that will be a good match for you?
I know that finding a serious and sincere man for a sugar daddy relationship might be tricky, especially If you’re a complete beginner in sugar dating.
Lucky for you, the steps you need to take in order to find yourself a valuable and successful man are quite easy and can be taken by every girl.
Here you will learn:
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Where Can I Find A Sugar Daddy Online?
All the girls that are entering the sugar dating lifestyle for the first time have many questions about good and safe online dating platforms that will connect them to potential sugar daddies for long-term relationships (like Tinder or eHarmony) and hookups (like BeNaughty or Ashley Madison).
Well, that is pretty easy, because all you have to do is set up a sugar baby profile and start meeting potential sugar daddies.
Nowadays it is very easy to find sugar daddy dating sites but it can take you some time to find a rich man that will be a good match for you because there are millions of sugar daddies on these platforms, but just a few of them are really valuable.
So, what is the best way to find a sugar daddy?
These are the best sugar daddy websites that have been around for years and will certainly bring you great success:
- Dating apps like Tinder
These dating websites have millions of active users on a daily basis and they are usually the first choice of most sugar babies and sugar daddies.
Even though all of these options are great, I always recommend starting out your sugar baby journey on Seeking Arrangement.
How to Find a Sugar Daddy on Seeking Arrangement?
Seeking Arrangement is certainly the most popular sugar dating website that has been successfully connecting sugar babies with their sugar daddies for more than 10 years now.
This is a platform full of rich sugar daddies who are willing to spoil their sugar babies with whatever they desire.
Also, this is a website that most sugar babies use because it has proven to be the safest option for sugar dating.
Most girls who are entering the sugar lifestyle for the first time use this website because it is the most popular and it has millions of sugar daddies that come from different parts of the world.
A large number of its users assures you that you will be able to find a sugar daddy nearby, no matter how small your city is.
Meeting sugar daddies on Seeking Arrangement is very easy because all it takes is to send a text message and start the conversation with a man that could potentially make all of your dreams come true.
However, you should be extremely careful when messaging a potential sugar daddy, because once they money is mentioned in your conversation, both of you risk getting banned from Seeking Arrangement.
Even though Seeking Arrangement is all about beneficial relationships, discussing money is strictly prohibited so be aware of this.
Unfortunately, it can make establishing a sugar relationship a bit more difficult because you are not able to discuss the specific amounts of money through it, but I also believe that is something that should be left for the first date.
There is also one big disadvantage to this website, and that is the fact that there are more and more scammers trying to approach both sugar babies and sugar daddies on this platform.
Sometimes it can be quite tough to differentiate a real sugar daddy from a fake one, so I always remind all the girls entering this industry to be extra safe and avoid any man that seems suspicious to them.
Also, you should never use your real names on SA but rather any attractive sugar baby nicknames
So, how to find a sugar daddy fast on Seeking Arrangement?
There are a few steps that will help you kickstart your sugar baby lifestyle and make dozens of sugar daddies approach you just a day or two after setting up your profile.
Step 1 – Fill out your profile
How to find a real sugar daddy than by proving you are a real sugar baby?
You have to make sure your profile is realistic, and the best way to do that is to fill it out with as much information as you can.
Say a few things about yourself, your personality, what you are looking for in a sugar daddy, and what are some of your sugar baby rules.
What should a sugar daddy look for in a sugar baby depends on one man to another, so you have to describe yourself as a high-quality woman that wants only the best out of life.
According to these tips on being a sugar baby, it will also make an invaluable man back off and switch to another girl.
Step 2 – Upload pictures
Your sugar baby profile should always have enough pictures that will prove to potential sugar daddies that you are a real person.
You don’t have to have too many pictures, 4 to 5 different pictures of you are completely fine and enough for a regular sugar daddy to believe that you are not a scammer.
Step 3 – Reach out to men you find interesting
There are many hot sugar daddies on this website and you don’t need to sit around and wait for them to approach you.
Many sugar babies make the first move and send private messages to sugar daddies they find interesting and it is something you should do too.
The more men you connect to, the higher the chances of finding your perfect sugar daddy match.
What Are Other Good Sugar Baby Websites?
As I have already mentioned, there are plenty of different sugar dating websites that have millions of active sugar daddies.
These sugar dating platforms are as popular as Seeking Arrangement, so I always recommend setting up your sugar baby profile on these dating services too.
While SugarDaddyMeet is quite easy to use, just like Seeking Arrangement, but it is quite less sophisticated and elegant since most people on this platform are looking for casual sugar relationships.
Both sugar babies and sugar daddies on this dating website are usually looking for a relationship that won’t be exclusive and won’t require you to meet each other every week, which also results in a lower allowance.
If you were asking yourself “How to find a sugar daddy that will just pay bills” then this is a good option for you because men on this website are not up for spending much more money than that.
That is also great, especially if you manage to find two sugar daddies that will be sending you money at the same time.
There is one big disadvantage of SugarDaddyMeet and it is the fact that it is not completely free to use.
Once you join this dating website, you will get a free trial but then you will be required to purchase a premium membership if you want to continue your sugar dating life.
If you don’t have enough money to spend to become a subscriber and you already have a Seeking Arrangement profile, then you can avoid this website.
However, the ability to discuss the height of your allowance without getting banned from the platform is a great advantage of SugarDaddyMeet.
EliteSingles is an international dating platform that is made to connect people from higher social classes and help them establish valuable relationships.
Once you join the platform, you will have to fill out a questionnaire that is similar to a personality test.
The results of this test will be used in the future in order to connect you with sugar daddies that have similar interests and personality traits.
However, this doesn’t mean that your dream sugar daddy will be one of the men the platform offers you and it is great that you can discover people who have different interests too.
It has great software that has many different features which makes connecting to potential sugar daddies very fun and easy.
The big advantage is the fact that it offers you a completely free profile, and in case you want to use some of the special add ons and features, you will have to pay a subscription.
I believe this is a great option for all sugar babies who value intelligence and education over money and it can connect you to very successful and respectable people from different areas.
Most of its users are from big cities like New York or Los Angeles, but I believe you can find great men in your city too.
If you were asking yourself how to find a rich sugar daddy, then this is the right place for you.
MissTravel is a great sugar baby website that is full of very rich men, seeking a girl that will make their dreams come true.
Women on this dating platform usually look for wealthy men who will take them on vacations few times a year, and even though most of them don’t require any kind of monthly allowance or gifts, paying for all of their travel expenses is usually pretty expensive.
If you are looking for a traditional sugar relationship, then this website is probably not the best choice, but you can certainly use it from time to time and set out on an exotic adventure.
My experience has shown me that most girls on this website want to bag themselves a successful and wealthy man that will finance their whole lifestyle and become their sugar daddy.
There are also many sugar mommas offering interesting experiences, so it can be a good fit for lesbian sugar babies too.
Tinder is one of the most famous dating apps that is mainly used by people looking for a traditional relationship or a casual hookup, but since the pandemic hit, we have seen a lot of sugar babies and sugar daddies using it too.
This dating app is very easy to use and is completely free, which makes it available to everyone.
During the last year, we have seen a great rise in the number of its users, which made it an app that has users in basically every city in the world, not only NYC.
Sugar babies looking for a sugar daddy found this app to be very useful because it was able to connect them with “sugar daddies near me”, which was really important during the pandemic.
How to find a sugar daddy on Tinder?
Well, all you need to do is to clarify that you are a sugar baby in your description box and start reaching out to men who declare themselves as sugar daddies.
Even though it is not a sugar daddy app and it can take you some time to find a sugar daddy on Tinder, I believe it can help you connect with valuable men and establish great beneficial relationships.
Even though there are not as many sugar daddies as on traditional sugar dating platforms, there are also many splenda daddies who are willing to provide you with some type of income.
Their financial abilities are not as great as regular sugar daddies, but in case you are struggling with money, they can be a great option.
On Tinder, you can also find many sugar mamas looking for young male and female sugar babies.
There is also a large number of scammers on this dating app too, so I recommend staying careful and suspicious of everyone, just like on other sugar baby dating sites.
I have also heard of many people using Snapchat to find a sugar daddy, but this can be a very dangerous app since it can show your location and make you a victim of all sorts of scammers.
How Do I Attract A Sugar Daddy?
How to find a sugar daddy online is a common question for all sugar babies, even the most experienced ones.
Attracting a man and keeping his attention tend to be even harder when online dating, because these men can’t see the real version of you, feel your energy or your charm over a simple text message.
So, how to get a sugar daddy to go crazy for you, even if you are just a non sexual sugar baby?
Well, you should always be very flirty when texting potential sugar daddies and try to impersonate a woman you believe he will like.
Investigate his profile and find out what his ideal woman is like and try to become her.
You should also never question your sugar daddies stories and feed his ego whenever you can, because it will make him feel more manly and appreciated, but will also make you look like a perfect girl for him.
Once you are sure he has the same intentions, you can talk about sex with sugar daddy and made him even more excited to meet you.
Be very upfront about your needs and wishes because sugar daddies love women who are open and honest because they know they won’t be wasting their time and pushing them into an arrangement that doesn’t feel comfortable to them.
Is Sugar Dating Legal?
Being a sugar baby is completely legal and it has nothing to do with sex work or escorting, even though many people don’t realize that.
Sugar dating is all about providing people with traditional-like relationships that include both emotional and sexual components.
None of the sugar relationships are based strictly on sugar daddy sex, which is the main difference between sugar dating and sex work.
The only thing that may cause you some legal obstacles is getting thousands of dollars transferred to your bank account each month, so make sure you have two separate bank accounts in case you expect to receive more than 10 thousand dollars a month.
How To Stay Safe When Sugar Dating?
Whenever you schedule a meet-up with any older man from these websites, make sure someone knows your location and can help you in case things go wrong.
Many newbie sugar babies are not careful enough and make themselves easy victims to plenty of scammers and dangerous men.
You should also never reveal your real identity or phone number to any of the men you meet through these websites, and keep your privacy even when you enter the relationship.
Also, you should never use pictures that are already present on your social media profiles because they can help scammers find your real profiles and try to blackmail you.
Thoroughly inspect all the messages you receive and research your potential sugar daddy briefly before you schedule the first date or decide to engage in a relationship with him.
You should also try to avoid greedy men who have no respect for sugar babies, and especially those that show signs of a salt daddy.
They usually have no respect for women in general, especially for sex workers, but they still need to get their needs satisfied so they turn to sugar babies.
Salt daddies won’t provide you with any type of financial support and won’t engage in a sugar babies sugar daddy relationship but rather use you and leave without calling you ever again.