Many girls pursue the sugar baby lifestyle but don’t really know what are the right techniques and behavior that will help them with seducing a sugar daddy in just one date.
Just like it is not that easy to seduce a man in real life, it is not very simple to attract a sugar daddy and keep him interested in you for a long period of time, when there are so many different young women out there.
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How to Land a Sugar Daddy?
The first thing to do is having a sugar daddy for yourself.
The best way to find a sugar daddy, especially if you are a complete beginner, is using some of the sugar dating sites.
You can find your sugar daddy on sugar dating websites like SeekingArrangement or SugarDaddyMeet but also on dating apps like Tinder.
One option that I recommend to professional sugar babies is pursuing freestyling and finding sugar daddies offline.
You may be asking yourself – are there really sugar daddies near me?
Trust me, there are so many sugar daddies in our surroundings and most people never realize what type of lifestyle they are practicing.
So, how do you land a sugar daddy and how can you make him choose only you?
You have to exude feminine, confident energy that will make you the star of the room and make everyone approach you.
Sugar daddies look for arm candies in most cases and it is very important for them that their sugar baby is someone desired by others.
A rich man looking for a sugar baby is usually looking for a high-quality woman that is educated on many topics and can hold a pleasant conversation with basically anyone.
When looking for a rich sugar daddy you should make sure you always look elegant and polished, because rich men always look for a woman who can be their companion on many different occasions and events.
Always do research on your potential sugar daddy, find out what kind of company he works for and what are his interests, and educate yourself a bit on these topics.
They need a woman that will understand them and be a good interlocutor, but also a good company on business events and trips, able to discuss things with their friends and colleagues.
Present yourself in the best light possible on the first date, show them you are genuinely interested in them and that you are willing to be their companion in all situations.
Every successful man wants to feel loved and secured, especially in the presence of their woman, but they will never show that to you.
Big sex appeal is crucial to becoming a sugar baby, but having a magnetic personality that makes men turn their heads once you enter the room is something that will help you secure your bag for a lifetime.
Well, trust me, most of the women find their sugar daddy within a week or two of creating their dating profile and pursuing this lifestyle, but I believe the more you wait and the more sugar daddies you meet for a first date, the more success you will have in your long term sugar relationship.
How to Negotiate the Arrangement You Want?
Once your online dating websites have brought you success and you have found your handsome sugar daddy, you need to learn how to negotiate and settle on the arrangement that will be beneficial to both of you.
Negotiation is probably the hardest thing for all sugar babies, especially for ones that are completely new to this industry.
If you have a certain amount of money in mind and you don’t want your monthly allowance to be lower than that, be upfront from the start and tell him you won’t be settling for less.
When you are sugar daddy dating, especially when you are dating older men, you need to learn how to always come off as a soft woman that wants her man to provide her with a feeling of security and a safe place.
Once they see that you have trust in them and that you seek their presence, they will start providing you with everything you want.
Most of the sugar daddies I have met are very thoughtful and listen carefully to your every word, so If you get little gifts that you mentioned only once in your conversation, don’t be surprised since they really want to make your wishes come true
Stay confident all the time and never allow any man to convince you that you are asking for too much.
You’re never asking for too many things, he is just a man that can’t satisfy your basic needs and that’s something you shouldn’t be ashamed of.
How To Keep A Sugar Daddy Interested?
This is something many sugar babies struggle with and often find themselves replaced by women who are maybe even older than them and don’t look nearly as good but have something they couldn’t offer to their sugar daddy.
Being good in bed won’t take you a long way since it might be a sugar daddy no sex relationship, eventually, your sugar daddy will want to feel wanted and loved not only for his money but also for his personality, which means they always want a real girlfriend-like experience.
You have to approach sugar relationships just like you would approach traditional dating by finding out what do sugar daddies want and treating your man with kindness and compassion.
Being a good sugar baby means that they will never feel like they are in an arrangement which they pay for, but rather with a woman they met when regular dating.
Once you get closer to them and find out what their interests are, beyond their job, make sure you start educating yourself about that.
They will see that you are putting an effort in order to satisfy them and become a good companion, which is something you will surely get awarded for.
One thing that will keep him glued to you is giving him compliments all the time for everything from their looks to their skills and success.
If you want to be spoiled like a real princess, you should be treating him as a king at all times.
Make an effort to stay on good terms with his friends If he wants that and make sure you never trash other people in his presence, because that might make him feel insecure.
Beyond all of the things you are doing to satisfy him and his needs, you should make sure you never stop investing in yourself, your looks, and your knowledge.
Successful men love women who work on themselves and to find a rich sugar daddy and keep him is a process in which you will be required to take yourself to another level, become a wise and thriving woman.
Never depend on him too much, because this is something that will probably push him off.
Use your money wisely and don’t ask for new bags or shoes all the time, you will come off as greedy and needy and that is something you certainly don’t want.
In order to keep your sugar daddy crazy about you, you always need to stand out from the crowd of other sugar babies.
You have to make sure you can offer him much more than sexual satisfaction and that he will have complete trust in you, confiding about everything.
One thing I also recommend is searching for different activities or events that may seem interesting to him and offering to go out together often.
This way he will see that you are sincere with him and that you want to spend time together engaging in different activities.
How to Attract Rich Sugar Daddies Online?
Most sugar babies aim for millionaire sugar daddies and when they use sugar daddy sites, they usually ignore everyone that doesn’t fit their perfect picture of an extremely wealthy man.
While I always encourage women to approach millionaires or billionaires, I believe many of them, especially in sugar dating, make some serious mistakes that push these men off.
How to be a sugar baby online can already be a bit of a challenge for many newbies to a sugar bowl, and it can get even more confusing if you start approaching rich men only and trying to act the way you believe will attract them.
When you start messaging rich and hot sugar daddies you should make sure you never mention their net worth and overall wealth during the conversation, but rather talk about things you want and whether they can provide them for you.
If you start talking about their enormous wealth and all the companies and properties they have, you will probably be ditched or used for a casual sugar daddy hookup.
This is a mistake many new sugar babies make, pushing very rich men off of themselves, not really realizing what was the problem.
You never want these men to feel like they were targeted as your chosen sugar daddy because of their money, but to make sure they feel comfortable and loved because of their personality.
When you are meeting your millionaire sugar daddy for the first time, dress like you would dress for any other sugar daddy, you don’t need designer bags or watches to impress him or professional makeup that is worth hundreds of dollars.
Just because they are millionaires, it doesn’t mean that they differ much from other men.
A rich sugar daddy is still a man who wants to be cherished, loved, and appreciated and he doesn’t care that much about your model-like figure or perfect makeup if you can’t satisfy his needs.
When you meet a sugar daddy who is extremely rich, always try to look very simple and natural, never wear clothes or makeup that will make you the center of attention, and make sure you are polite to everyone that approaches you.
Rich men love women who are well-mannered and polite to everyone, but also the ones who always look effortlessly beautiful, without too much makeup or over-the-top outfits.
You should also have exquisite social skills since dating a rich man usually means you will be attending many different social events.
The fact that they are rich doesn’t mean that they have some crazy requirements of their potential sugar baby, they are, in fact, the same as other men in the sugar bowl industry and will be crazy for you as long as they feel respected and cherished in that relationship.
How Can I Find A Sugar Daddy In My City?
There is a common misconception that you won’t be able to find a sugar daddy in your surroundings unless you’re living in big cities like New York and Los Angeles.
However, my experience has shown me that sugar daddies are present almost everywhere, even in the smallest cities in the USA, you just have to look and act like a sugar baby in real life in order to attract them.
Local sugar daddies probably won’t be giving you that big of an allowance like those you meet on SeekingArrangement would, but in these conditions, during the pandemic, I believe that their financial support will be more than enough for most women.
Most sugar babies rarely freestyle and never approach potential sugar daddies in person, so it can seem that there really are no sugar daddies in some places.
Looking for a real sugar daddy in real life can be a bit hard, and it has certainly got harder during the last couple of years, amid the Covid pandemic, but I believe it can still be very successful and set you up with a quality sugaring relationship.
In case this type of sugaring doesn’t suit you very well, once the world comes back to normal, you can go back to your online sugar daddy search finding millionaire sugar daddies all over the country.
What Are Some Sugar Daddy Red Flags?
Even when everything seems to be going very smoothly, there can still be some red flags in your sugar daddy behavior that you probably won’t realize unless you are very experienced.
If all your sugar daddy seems to be talking about before your first date is sex, then he is probably a man that doesn’t know what sugaring really is.
Even though there are many real sugar daddies on these dating sites, there are also many salt daddies and men who don’t understand what sugar dating really is and what a sugar baby should be providing and provided with.
They will be asking for sexual activities the second you meet and will certainly not pay you well, or even not at all.
Always inspect the behavior of your potential sugar daddy to make sure he is a real one, and not a scammer or salt daddy.
In case your potential sugar daddy insists on getting your phone number or full name, I believe you should be a bit suspicious, since men who have been in this industry for long enough know that these are personal information they shouldn’t be asking for.
Something that is more common but can still be very dangerous, is giving out your real social media profile to sugar daddies online.
You never know how good someone’s intentions are so in order to protect yourself, I believe you should never give out any of your profiles and never mention your real name unless you have been in a relationship for some time and have trust in your sugar daddy.
If you want, you can establish fake social media accounts using good sugar baby names on which you will add only your sugar baby friends.